Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngaba abazali bayigcina intsapho okanye hayi, bahlala kunye okanye bahlukane, banemithwalo yemali kubantwana babo. Ngaphambi kokufika kweminyaka, umzali ohlala ngokuhlukileyo kufuneka axhase umntwana wakhe nangona athe wahlulwa ngamalungelo omzali. Isixa semarmoni sinqunywe kuxhomekeke kwingeniso-imali, ukuzinza. Le nto ingaba yimali echanekileyo, okanye mhlawumbi iphesenti yemvuzo. Xa kuthe kwenzeka iimpikiswano, inani le-alimony linqunywe yinkundla.
Iimali ezirejistwayo zibalwe ukususela kumzuzwana xa isinqumo senkundla esenziwe ngokusemthethweni ngokusungula okanye isivumelwano sokuzithandela sisebenza. Kungenzeka ukunciphisa ityala kwimida yesithathu edlulileyo kwimeko apho umhlawuli-mali angakwazi ukuhlawula inkxaso yabantwana ngaphandle kwephutha lakhe. Ezi zizathu zilandelayo zivunyelwe:
- iphoso lomzuzi we-alimony - ukuba akazange anikeze umboleki ngesigqibo senkundla kwangaphambili;
- ukuba kwintlangano apho umhlawuli asebenza khona, ngokuchanekileyo kunye nexesha elide lokulibaziseka, kwaye akanalo ezinye iindlela zokuhlawula i-alimony;
- ukuba ukulibaziseka kokufumana iintlawulo kubangelwa iphoso leenkonzo zeposi;
- ngenxa yesifo somhlawuli;
- xhobisa iimeko ezinkulu-xa elinye lala maqela lisesemngciphekweni yendalo okanye eyenziwe yintlekele, imisebenzi yezempi, izixhobo kunye nokufumana imali akunakwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezingaphaya kwazo.
Indlela yokufumana iitalato zokuxhasa abantwana?
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isenzo esichukumisayo sokubuyisela kwi-malicious defaulter ityala lokugcinwa, kufuneka uqonde iingcamango zetyala ngqo phantsi kwe-alimony kunye nokubuyiselwa kwabo ngexesha elidlulileyo. Ngoko ke, okwesibini kwenzeka ukuba iqela linelungelo lokufumana i-alimony, kodwa nangona sizathu esingayisebenzisi ngaphandle kokuthintana namagunya afanelekileyo. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, umboleki uchithe ngamabomu imisebenzi yakhe, sele eqhelana namaxwebhu afanelekileyo, ngoko uqokelela iimbuyekezo emva kwexesha lokungahlawulwanga.
Unokubheka ukuba kukho ityala leqela elinoxanduva lokuba u-alimony ukuba usezandleni zakho umqulu olawulayo oqinisekisa ubungqina bokuqeshwa kweentlawulo. Ukuba ngaba ilahlekile, unokufaka isicelo sokuphinda.
Indlela yokubala iirhafu zokuxhasa abantwana?
- Ukumiselwa kwexabiso lesetyala kuxhomekeke kwindlela intlawulo ibalwa ngayo, ingaba isixa esicwangcisiweyo okanye ukuba inani elithile lenkxaso-mali yommangalelwa lenziwe;
- ukuba i-alimony iyimali echanekileyo , ityala libalwe ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: inani liphindwe liqela leenyanga ezidlulileyo kunye nexesha langoku;
- Ukuba ukugcinwa kufuneka kuhlawulwe ngepesenti ukusuka kwisixa semali engenayo kuyimfuneko ukuba shwa nkathele yonke imali kwixesha letyala kwaye umyinge ubalwa. Isixa sematyala kwinyanga enye yiphesenti echanekileyo yale mali;
- umboleki akazange asebenze kwaye akazange abe nengeniso engapheliyo, ityala libalwe kwisiseko semali engenayo yabantu abaneziqinisekiso ezifanayo.
Indlela yokuqokelela amatyala okuxhasa abantwana?
- Ukuba, phambi kwesivumelwano sokuzithandela okanye kwisigqibo senkundla, awuzange ufumane i-alimony kwisithuba seenyanga ezi-2, kufuneka usebenzise nexwebhu elifanelekileyo kumsebenzi wenkxaso-mali.
- Ukuba ummangalelwa usebenza, ngoko icebo lokuqokelela ityala ngabacebisi ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: uxwebhu luthunyelwa kwindawo yokusebenzela kwaye imali ihlawulwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukusuka kumvuzo.
- Ukuba ummangalelwa akanalo inzuzo engapheliyo, ityala libuyiselwa ngendleko ze-akhawunti yebhanki okanye ukuthengiswa kwepropati yomboleki. Kwimeko apho le nto ingenakwenzeka, umchasisi unokugwetywa, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, akayikumkhulula imbopheleleko yakhe.
- Ukungaphumeleli ukubuyisela emva kwemali emva kwe-alimony ayamkelwe phantsi kweyiphi na imeko. Ingasuswa kuphela kwiimeko ezimbini: ukuba umntwana ufile okanye umboleki ngokwakhe.