Isiqhamo esinqatshelwe siyaziwa sisithande. Amantombazana anqwenela ukukhawuleza oku kunambitheka kufuneka akhumbule imiphumo ekhoyo yesondo. Ukufumana ngokwaneleyo kulo mbandela kuthetha ukukhuselwa. Ngale nto uze uthethe.
Izibalo, i-psychology kunye ne-gynecology
Ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yeembali zehlabathi, umyinge wamaxesha amantombazana angena ebuhlotsheni obusondeleyo yiminyaka eyi-18, efanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, eRashiya amava okuqala ngokwesini atholakala ngabantu abaselula abaneminyaka eli-15 no-17. Kwaye ngokwemibare efanayo, i-7% yobumnandi bobuncinci baqala ukulala ngesondo ngaphambi kokuba baneminyaka eli-15. Olu hlobo lonyaka lusemngciphekweni omkhulu.
Ukulungela ukuziphatha
Ixesha apho amantombazana aqala ukungena kwiintlobano zesini inendima ebalulekileyo ekuphononongweni kwesondo kunye nokwakhiwa kobudlelwane obusondeleyo kulo. Kuya kuba nethuba okanye libi - konke kuxhomekeke kumava okuqala. Yintoni ongayithetha, ukuba okokuqala akuphumelelanga. Akuyena iphoso lomlingane wakho. Kungenzeka ukuba imbangela yoqhagamshelwano olungaphumeleli luyi-psychological unpreparedness of the partner. Intombazana eza kulwalamano nentombazana ngenxa yokwesaba xa ingavumelani ukuba inqatshelwe nguye okanye ngenxa yokuba "ingabuyi ngasemva" intombi zamantombazana, kungekhona ukuba "iimvu ezimnyama", yenza iphutha elikhulu. Ukugxininisa kwimbono yabanye, okokuqala, okokuqala, ukulimaza wena. Ngubani okhathalelayo ocinga? Amantombazana "ahamba phambili ngokwesondo" ngokukhawuleza aya kuba "ngempahla yesibini", ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba ube kubo?
Ukwabelana ngesondo kwasebuncinci kunokuba nemiphumo emibi kubantu. Amakhwenkwe angama-adolescence anxulumana ngokwesondo phakathi kweminyaka eyi-12 neye-15 badla ngokugqithiseleyo i-fiasco epheleleyo. Oku kungenxa yoluvuyo kunye nokungabikho kokukhula komfana. Emva kwe "galelo" efanayo, amathuba okwesaba ulwalamano olusondeleyo, iingxaki zobungakanani zikhulu.
Ukulungela umzimba
Xa uneminyaka engama-12 ukuya kwimi-14 ubudala, loo mntwana sele esenomdla kuphela. Umntwana uhamba nobunzima bexesha lokuguquka. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kwiminyaka engama-13 kukunyusa nokutsala ingqalelo. Amantombazana ngokukhethekileyo afuna ukubonisa ubudala kunye nokuqhaqhakazi. Kodwa ngokwenyama umzimba we-12 okanye umfana oneminyaka eyi-14 akalungele ubomi bobulili. Izitho zangaphakathi zesini zesantombazana ezishumi elivisayo zihlala zingakhuselekanga, zijongene nokuvuvukala nokusabalala kwezifo. Umonakalo ovela kwisini sangaphambili unxulumene neengxaki zokuzala, ukukhulelwa okunzima kunye nokubeletha. Izabelo zokuqala kwaye ngokokungafuneki phakathi kweminyaka eyi-12 no-14 zikhokelela kwinto yokuba intombazana ayiyi kuba ne-orgasm xa ikhula.
Umlinganiselo ohlukeneyo wobushushu obangela ukuba abanye babe nekhono eliphezulu lokukhulelwa emva kokuqhagamshelana kwangaphambili. Ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo kwiimeko ezinqabileyo zingaphumelela ngokuphumelelayo, kodwa umama ozayo akayiqondi yonke imbopheleleko kwaye akanakulungele ukuba ngumama.
Inani eliphezulu kakhulu lokukhupha izisu livela kumantombazana asetsheni. Isiphumo saloo ntsebenzo kukungabikho. Yilokho ekhokelela kwindlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Oku kulungile ukucinga ngaphambi kokungena kumntu "omdala".
Zi khusele
Bambalwa abantu abazama ukufunda kwiimpazamo zabanye abantu. Kukho, ngokucacileyo, ukwenza okuthabatha umdla. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, ukugqiba ngesini ngesantya kuninzi into. Ukuba uthetha isigqibo, qaphela ukhuselo lwakho kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezifo. Xoxa kunye neendlela zakho ezinokuthi ukhulelwe, ungakulungele ukuzalwa komntwana?
Ikondom yokuqala yesondo ifanelekile. Buza le ndoda ukuba isebenzise le ndlela. Makhe asondele ngokukhetha kwakhe ngokufanelekileyo. Musa ukuthenga iikhondom kwii-kiosks kwiimoto, kungcono ukuqhagamshelana nekhemisi. Thembela iimpawu ezidumileyo kunye nabakhiqizi. Into esemgangathweni ayikwazi ukuhlambulula.
Ubumnandi bobuhlobo obusondeleyo buza ngokupheleleyo "kwiimbali" zomntu. Ukulinda, njengoko bathethayo, kuqinisa isondlo kwaye kwenza uvakalelo lunzulu kwaye lubalabala. Musa ukukhawuleza, ulinde kancane. Emva koko, yonke into inexesha layo.