Abantwana bethu abathandekayo basoloko bezisa iingxaki ezininzi: abalala ebusuku, behlushwa yi- colic kunye namazinyo azinqamlekileyo , bahamba ngokuxhomekeka okukhulu kwi-kindergarten, ukuqala kobudala. Njengoko umntwana ekhula, umba wokhuseleko lomntwana ngaphandle kwekhaya luya kuba nzima ngakumbi, kwaye amathuba okuba abantwana abangabantwana abaneminyaka engama-2,5-3, banokulahleka. Enyanisweni, umntu kufuneka azame ukuvumela izimo ezinjalo, ukuqwalasela ezi ngcebiso kunye nezilumkiso ezilandelayo:
- Ungashiyi umntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kweminyaka emihlanu esitalatini engalindelwe;
- ukuba umntwana sele sele ekhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuhamba ngokuzimeleyo, zama ukumnika inkampani yeontanga eziza kubamba kunye;
- ukucacisela umntwana ukubaluleka kokuhlonipha imigaqo yokhuseleko lomntu: ungathethi kubantu abangaziwayo, ungangeni emotweni kunoma yimuphi umbandela;
- ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana efunde ukuveza iingcamango zakhe ngokucacileyo okanye ngaphantsi ngokucacileyo, umntu umele amfundise indlela yokubiza igama lakhe, idilesi kunye nedilesi yabazali bakhe. Ukuba umntwana usemncinci, unokufaka ikhadi leedokethi ephaketheni lakhe okanye ubhale kuwo kwiibhile zeengubo;
- ungaphumi ukuhamba nomntwana kwindawo yobunxila, ungashiyi ngabahlobo kunye nezihlobo ezidakwa;
- Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana balahlekelwa ngamaqela amakhulu abantu: kwiivenkile, izitishi, izithuthi, njl. Bamba umntwana ngesandla uze ungavumeli ukuhamba. Kwimeko apho, khetha indawo evelele (iwashi, ibhodi ye-elektroniki, umthombo) kwaye ulungise ukuba uza kulinda umntwana apho;
- fundisa umntwana xa elahlekile, funa uncedo kubantu abangabangela ukwesaba ngaphandle, umzekelo, oomama nabantwana;
- xa uhamba ndawonye ehlathini okanye epakini, unika umntwana ngekhwelo kwaye umfundise indlela yokusingatha ngayo;
- ukugqoka umntwana ukuhamba, engeza kwiingubo iinkcukacha eziqaqambileyo - isikhephe okanye isitya, oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ungayilahleki kwisihlwele, kwaye apho apho kuya kuba ngumqondiso ocacileyo;
- ukuqhuba intetho yokukhusela nomntwana ngeengozi ezingamlinda kwisitalato. Kwifomu yemidlalo, bonisa i-algorithm yezenzo kwiimeko ezinjalo.
Izenzo zethu ngokulahlekelwa ngumntwana
Ukuba, nangona zonke izilumkiso, kusenokwenzeka, kwaye umntwana ulahlekile, ungatyi ngokukhawuleza, kubalulekile ukuba ungaphumeleli umzuzu, kodwa ukuba uzenzele kunye kunye nokwenza. Ngoko, oko kufuneka uyenze:
- Okokuqala kufuneka uhlolisise ummandla. Ewe, ukuba ukwenza oku akukuphela, kwaye uya kuhlanganiswa nezihlobo okanye omaziyo;
- ukuba umntwana ulahlekile kwindawo kawonkewonke, yithetha kwivenkile okanye kwiholide edolobheni, ugijime ngokukhawuleza kwi-loudspeaker okanye kwisigaba nge microphone;
- Isinyathelo esilandelayo sisitatimende malunga nokulahlekelwa kwamapolisa. Khumbula ukuba ukulahlekelwa ngumntwana omncinane kuyisiseko sokwamkela isicelo ngaphandle kokulibala. Ixesha elifutshane ukususela kwithuba lokulahleka, ukungabikho kwesithombe somntwana-kungabangela ukuba wenqatshelwe ukuqalisa ityala lolwaphulo-mthetho. Ukuba abasebenzi bamaziko angaphakathi bayenqaba ukunika isikhalazo kwimeko kwaye bazinikezela ukuthatha ixesha lakho, kufuneka ujikelele kunkokheli lwabo uncedo okanye ngqo kwiofisi yomtshutshisi;
- Ukuba unokwesaba neenguqu malunga noko kwenzekayo, kufuneka uxelele abasebenzi bakho ngamalungu angaphakathi ngaphandle kokufihla. Ukuba
ukuthunjwa, ngoko, mhlawumbi, ubungqina bakho buza kubakhokelela endleleni; - zilungele ukuba iingcali ziza ekhaya lakho ukuphanda ummandla apho umntwana ehlala khona, kunye nokufumana iifoto kunye nezinto zakhe eziququzelelayo, umzekelo, ukukhangela kwe-cynological;
- Musa ukukhangela umntwana ngokwakho: uye kwimibutho yokuzithandela ukufumana abantwana abangabikhoyo, ukutsala abaqhelana nabo, ukubeka iiflaya kunye neefoto, "udibanise" indawo. Umgudu wenziwe ngakumbi ekukhangekeleni, okuphakamileyo amathuba okuphumelela kwiphumo.