Mhlawumbi, ngokukhawuleza kamva bonke abazali bajamelana nesicelo somntwana sokuthenga isilwanyana esincinane. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale isilwanyana kumntwana, makube ngumlusi osisigxina okanye umalusi waseJamani, kufuneka uhlalutye ubuqili kunye nenkunkuma yokubonakala kwindlu yakho yomhlali omtsha.
Khetha isilwanyana
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba luphi uhlobo lwesilwanyana olungcono kumntwana wakho. Kuxhomekeke kwi:
- iminqweno yomntwana ngokwakhe;
- ukhetho lwabazali;
- imeko zo kuhlala;
- amathuba okubonelela ngezilwanyana ngokunyamekela.
Qhubeka ngokucela komntwana, okuqinisekileyo kuya kuba yinto ecacileyo ("Ndifuna inja enkulu emnyama ngomsila omhlophe"), kwaye uyihlalutye "into engokoqobo / engenangqiqo". Ukuba unqumle ukuba akuvunyelwanga kwintsapho ukufumana i-bullrier okanye i-tarantula efunekayo yentsapho, cela umntwana ukuba akhethe indawo. Kungaba:
- intlanzi yamanzi;
- iintaka ezinqabileyo (iiproti, i-canaries, iidines, izambisi);
- izilwanyana (iiforgia, iguana, iinyoka, iilzards);
- iimbofu (i-hamsters, iirati zokuhlobisa, imvundla, i-chinchillas, i-squirrels, i-piginea pigs);
- izinja kunye namakati eentlobo ezahlukeneyo.
Izilwanyana zichaphazela njani abantwana?
Umbuzo ongokoqobo, othanda abazali abaninzi - ukuba izilwanyana kunye nabantwana abancinci bahamba ngaphantsi kwelinye uphahla. Impendulo ayiyiyo ingqiqo: ukusuka kwingcamango yengqondo, lo mmandla unikeza iziphumo ezilungileyo kuphela. Abantwana abakhulileyo kunye nezilwanyana banomusa, banononophelo, kwaye bazingcingi ngaphezu koontanga abangenazo izilwanyana. Abantwana bafunda kwizilwanyana zasekhaya, uthando, uvelwano. Izilwanyana ezifuywayo zezilwanyana ezingaphezu kwezilwanyana ezidinga ukondliwa kwaye zijikelezwe. Emva kokufumana isilwanyana njengesipho, umntwana uba ngumnini wayo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ungenelela indima entsha - umdala, oyintloko. Ufunda ukunyamekela, uxanduva, ububele kwintwanyana yakhe encinane. Abantwana bathanda izilwanyana, ngoko banike ithuba lokubonisa lo thando!
"Izibango"
Ukongezelela kwimpembelelo entle yezilwanyana kubantwana, kukho i-minuses kule ngxaki. Ingxaki eqhelekileyo yinto engabonakaliyo kwizilwanyana ezenzeka kubantwana. Imithombo yokungabikho komzimba ingabunwele bentaka, iintsiba kunye neentaka zeentaka, iimveliso zeentonga kunye nokutya kweentlanzi. Ukuba sele usuyazi ukuba umntwana wakho uyahlulwa, oko kungcono ukuba ungaqalanga isilwanyana. Chaza kwintsana ukuba xa eqala ukuphendula, i-pet yakhe entsha iya kufuneka inikwe umntu, kwaye iya kuba yintlungu. Ukongeza kwimizimba, abantwana bangahlakulela izifo ezahlukahlukeneyo ezidluliselwa kwizilwanyana. Ezi zifo ezifana ne-helminthic invasion, lichen, leptospirosis, i-toxoplasmosis, i-rabies kunye nabanye. Ukuze kungabi yixhoba lazi zifo eziyingozi, izifo eziphilayo eziphantse kuzo zonke izilwanyana, umntu kufuneka agcine ngokucacileyo imithetho yokucoceka komntu, kunye nokusola kancinci ukuthetha nodokotela.
Izilwanyana kunye neNtsana
Xa usana olutsha luvela endlwini, izilwanyana zinikwa ingqwalasela encinane kunaphambili. Oku kuninzi kusebenza kwiikati nasezinja, ezikhwele kakhulu. Ncedisa isilwanyana ukuba sisetyenziswe ebusweni bentsana: sinika iingubo zengane kunye naye, "ubazise". Nika isilwanyana ncinane ixesha lakhe imihla ngemihla ukuze angaziveki enyanzelekile.
Ukuze ugweme iingxaki ezinokwenzeka, qaphela le mithetho elandelayo yokusebenzisana kweentsana kunye nezilwanyana ezifuywayo:
- Ngaphambi kokuba kuzalwe umntwana, yenza izigulane ezifunekayo kwilwanyana, kwaye ngoko-rhoqo ujonge ngogqirha wezilwanyana.
- Ekuqaleni, jonga indlela umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kunye nesilwanyana sakho.
Ungavumeli ikati ukuba ilale ebhokisini lomntwana, kwaye inja inqabile umntwana. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, kwakhona kuphelisa ukunxibelelana komntwana kunye noboya bezilwanyana. - Xa umntwana ekhula kwaye eqala ukukhwela, akukho mzekelo makaye kwindlu yangasese yekati.
- Myalelo umntwana ukuba ahlambe izandla emva kokuba adlale nenja, intaka okanye i-hamster.
Ungesabi ukuqala izilwanyana! Emva koko, banefuthe elihle kungekhona kuphela kubantwana, kodwa nakubantu abadala. Isilwanyana asiyi kuba yinto nje yokunyamekela, kodwa sincedisayo ekulwa nokunyamezela, umhlobo omhle kunye nelungu lentsapho.