Uhambo kunye nomntwana kwisitimela luhlala luxinezelekile, kuba kufuneka achithe ixesha elide kwindawo engagcinanga kuyo, ayikho iindidi zamathoyizi ayezijwayele. Kukho nabanye abantu abakuzungeze abangenakwenzeka ukuba bafumane ukunyuka kwenyango ukusuka ekumemeza komntwana. Kubonakala ngathi umntwana wakho uye waba ngethuba kwaye akanakunzima. Enyanisweni, unokubethwa ixesha elide kwiimeko ezinje kwaye uzama ukuzibhokoxa njengokuba unakho. Ngoko ke, ukuba uya kuhamba ngomzila kunye nomntwana omncinci kwixesha elizayo, kufuneka unakekele ukuzonwabisa ngaye ngaphambili.
Yintoni endiyenzayo ukuba ndithathe umntwana emotweni?
Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe uhambo lomzila, ungabuza umntwana oko kuya kukhangela ukuzonwabisa ngesitimela. Mhlawumbi uya kukuxelela izinto amathoyizi afuna ukuthatha naye. Ukuba uzama ukuzikhethela wena ukuba uthathe umntwana ukuba aqeqeshe, ngoko kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwiimidlalo ezifana nale:
- umbala;
- Iincwadi zezingane ezinemifanekiso eqingqiweyo kunye nemilolozo;
- plastiki ;
- umdlali we-dvd ophathekayo kunye neethathu (musa ukulibala i-headphones);
- iipuzzle zekhadibhodi;
- ibhodi yamagnetic eneesethi yamanani, iileta okanye iinombolo;
- dominoes zabantwana;
- Ukuphuhlisa imidlalo yebhodi kwiibhokisi (umzekelo, imifanekiso-ihafu, umdlalo "Fumana uMama wezilwanyana", njl);
- ezimbini okanye ezintathu zokudlala ezisuka ekhaya okuthandwa ngumntwana;
- amathoyizi ambalwa amathoyilo angenakwenzelwa umntwana xa eqala ukungenangqondo.
Ekubeni uhambo oluya esitimeleni luya kuba lutsha kumntwana, into ebaluleke kakhulu ayifumanayo kukunxibelelana nabanye abantu. Ungammema ukuba ajwayelane nabamelwane kwiqhekeza. Ukuba emotweni kusekho iintsapho ezinabantwana abancinci, ngoko unako ukunikela ngokudlala kunye kwimidlalo ethule.
Ukuba ukhangele umntwana ngefestile, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufana nomdlalo we "Umbutho". Umzekelo, ukhetha ifu, kwaye ngamnye ucinga ukuba kukhangeleka njani.
Ukuba umntwana uhamba ngesitimela okokuqala, ke isitima ngokwalo siya kuba yinto yokudlala enkulu, enokufundiswa. Hamba nge-corridor, bonise umntwana apho indlu yangasese ivela kuyo, apho ungathabatha khona amanzi ukusela itiye, apho umthwalo ugcinwa kwimoto, njl. Kwaye ukuba njengotonwabo kubantwana kwiitimela uthatha iindidi ezahlukeneyo, uhambo olo luya kukhunjulwa ngumntwana ixesha elide. Yaye unako ukuphumla ubuncinane.