Sivame ukuthetha ngezenzo zethu ngeemvakalelo ezingalindelekanga, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha sibeka kakubi zonke iimvakalelo, sisebenzisa ezi ngcamango njengezantetho. Ngoko mhlawumbi inyaniso, akukho ntlukwano phakathi kweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo? Ekuhloliseni okufutshane, kuvela ukuba akukho ziqhagamshelo apha. Iingcamango, ngokuqinisekileyo, ziyafana, kodwa xa uqonda iingcaciso zabo, abayi kukwazi ukudibanisa kamva.
Imvakalelo ihluke njani kwiimvakalelo?
Umzimba wethu uphendule kwishintsho kwiimeko zangaphandle: i-pulse ihamba ngokukhawuleza, abafundi bayaphulaphula, ukuphefumula kuyacotha, ukuqhuma kuhamba emzimbeni. Kwaye ukuphazamiseka kokuqala kwezi nguqu kunikwa yimvakalelo, ephendula ngayo nayiphi na imeko. Iimvakalelo zifunekayo ukuze kugcinwe imisebenzi ebalulekileyo kwaye zinxibelelane ngqo kunye nokwaneliseka kweemfuno zethu okanye ukungabi nako. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umzimba ufuna ukuphumla, umvakalelo wenziwa kwingqondo, ngenxa yokuba umntu uzizwa ekhathele. Ukuba le mfuno iyanelisekile, ngoko imvakalelo iya kutshintsha, ukuba akunjalo, iya kwanda. Oko kukuthi, le mpendulo iimeko, kwaye ezo zidibene neemfuno ze-biological zizalwa.
Kutheni ke iimvakalelo zihluke kwiimvakalelo? Inyaniso yokuba ayifumanekanga, ngokuchasene nokuphendulwa kweprayimari, iimvakalelo azisekelwe kwimeko ethile, kodwa ngamava athobileyo. Kwakhona kuthiwa yiyesibili, imvakalelo ephakamileyo, kuba iinjongo eziphambili zokumiswa zanikezwa ngempendulo ebalulekileyo. Ukwahlukana kweemvakalelo ezivela kwiimvakalelo kukubandakanya ubudlelwane babo, ukunyanzelanisa kunye nobunzima kwiinkcazo. Ngokomzekelo, sichaza umsindo okanye isimangalo kwilizwe, kodwa ukuba sizama ukuqonda oko kubangelwa uthando kumntu, oku akunakwenzeka ukusebenza. Inokwenzeka ukuba, bonke baya kugqiba ngeengxabano ezide, ezingayi kunika izizathu zeemvakalelo ezinjalo. Kwakhona, umahluko phakathi kweemvakalelo zomntu kunye neemvakalelo yimiba ende yeyokuqala kunye nexesha elifutshane lelo xesha. Abantu abasondeleyo banokubangela ukucaphukisa, ukucaphuka, ukudabuka, kodwa ngesisombululo seemeko ezingathandekiyo kudlulayo, kodwa uthando luhlala luhlala, kwaye ukuphendula okwethutyana akunakukwazi ukuphazamisa le ntliziyo.
Kunokwenzeka ukuba uqaphele ukuhluka kwemvakalelo evela kwiimvakalelo ngokubonakaliswa kwabo kwangaphandle. Iimvakalelo ziboniswa ngobuso bethu, indlela yokuthetha, ithoni yezwi, isenzo, isantya yencoko.
Ngenye indlela iimvakalelo zihluke njani kwiimvakalelo? Phakathi kwezihlandlo zesibini, umntu unokuphawula amandla okubonakaliswa. Ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza kunokuba lubukhali kwaye bucacile, iimvakalelo, ngenxa yobude babo obude, zizolile.