Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, kwihlabathi lobuchwepheshe obuphambili kunye nezinga elongeziweyo leemeko ezixinzelelekileyo, ixesha lokutshintsha ukuziphatha komntu, kusekho into enjengokuzidela.
Lithetha ukuthini igama lokuzidela?
Ngokwesi sigama, ukuzincama ngumnikelo womntu, umntu uzidela ngokwakhe, iimfuno zakhe ngenxa yomnqophiso omnye, ngenxa yokuphila kwabanye, ukuzithiya ngenxa yento ethile okanye umntu.
Ukuzidela ngenxa yabanye
Kukho into enjengokuqala kwendalo. Unako ukulawula umntu kwindawo ethile. Kodwa kungekho phantsi kweemeko ezifanayo umntu wenza okufanayo. Ukuzidela, kokubili ngenxa yothando, nangeminye imvakalelo, abantu babhekisela kwisimo sabantu sokukhusela intsapho, inzala, iqela labantu, intsapho, ilizwe lonxweme (oku kufunyanwa ngenxa yokukhuliselwa).
Sinokuthi ukuzingca kunye nokuzidela kubhekisa into. Emva koko, kwenzeka ukuba xa kunzima kwimeko, xa umntu omnye ebingelela ubomi bakhe ngenxa yokulondoloza umntu, omnye, naye, uya kubandakanyeka ekusindisweni komphefumlo wakhe. Kule meko, isistim sokuzihlawulela sithatha indawo, sitshintshile, okanye sihlonywe ngenye indlela yokuzimela.
Ukuzidela kungabikho nto (mhlawumbi, ukusindisa umntu kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu), kwaye uyazi (isoldwe kwimfazwe).
Ingxaki yokuzidela
Ngethuba langoku, ingxaki yokuzibongela ngohlobo lobugandxininci isongelwa. Ngokombono wendoda yanamhlanje, izenzo zokuzibulala ezihlaselayo zinengqiqo kuthi kwaye zichazwe ngokwembonakalo yehlabathi. Okokuthi, iinjongo eziphambili zolu hlobo lwenyathelo yindlela yokwenza umgaqo-nkqubo wemibutho yamaphekula kunye nesisombululo sayo sokusombulula iingxaki ezahlukeneyo ngale ndlela.
Kodwa eqinisweni, iimvo zobuqu zokuzibulala zibandakanya umbono wazo wokuzidela egameni lenkolo. Iingqungquthela zama-Islamic fundamentalism zibonakalise ngokucacileyo ingcamango enjalo kwizenzo. Ngaloo ndlela, imibutho enkulu yesigebengu ebizwa ngokuthi "iHezbollah", "iHamas" eyenza izenzo zobugandagxala, ukugxininiswa kwabo kubonakala kukuzibulala.
Kananjalo, ngaphezu kweenjongo ezizimeleyo zabantu abathintekayo, kunokukhokelela ekuzibingeleleni ngokubhekiselele kwiimfuno zoluntu. Ngoko ke, ukusebenzisa ukukhutshwa koluntu ngokubhekiselele kubundlobongela, amaqela enkxaso yenkxalabo, ngoko ke, ukunyuselwa ngokwabo, iimfuno kunye nezenzo zabo.
Imizekelo yokuzidela
Ukunikela ngobomi bomnye umntu ngumsebenzi onobulumko wobomi bomntu wonke. Kufanelwe ukuhlonishwa kwendalo kunye nememori. Masinike umzekelo wezenzo zobuqili bexesha lethu.
- I-Congressional Medal yanikezelwa kuLokuqala uLieutenant John Fox, iinqwelo zokukhosela umlilo kwisixeko saseNtaliyane ngexesha leMfazwe Yehlabathi II. Le ndoda yayikhokelela umlilo, kungekudala yaqonda ukuba amandla omkhosi waseJamani adlula amajoni akhe, waxelela wonke umntu ukuba ashiye eso sithuba, kwaye yena ngokwakhe wahlala, edubula omnye umshini. Ngethamsanqa, walinqoba le nto. Umzimba wakhe ufunyenwe kufuphi nomlilo, kwaye malunga naye kwakumalunga ama-100 aseJamani abulawa nawo.
- Ngexesha apho kwakukho ukukhutshwa kweLeningrad, ososayensi waseRussia, u-Alexander Shchukin, eyinhloko yebhubhoratri ngelo xesha, wanika bonke abantu ukutya kwakhe, ukukhusela iisampula zakhe zezityalo ezingaqhelekanga. Ukungabi nako
ukutya, wafa ngokukhawuleza. - Nokuba izinja zikwazi ukuzidela. E-Kazakhstan, indoda enxilisayo yayifuna ukuzibulala ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwi-train esondeleyo. Ngaphantsi kwefuthe lotywala, walala e-rails. Inja yakhe yagijimela ukuze imlondoloze, imdonsa kude ngomzuzu wokugqibela. Wafa phantsi kwamavili esitimela, ngoxa wayekwazi ukugcina umnini.
Akuyena wonke umntu okwazi ukuzincama, kodwa abantu abaye baba ngamaqhawe bangakhuthaza izizukulwana ezizayo ukuba ziphile.