Ukongezelela, ngexesha lokuncelisa umntwana phakathi kwakhe nonina, ukuxhatshazwa ngokusondeleyo kwemizwelo, kusetyenziswe inkqubo yesantya kunye neengqondo zeemvumba. Okwangoku, nangona kuncelisekile kuncinci ebusweni bakho, umama osemncinci uya kuqala ukucinga ukuba ingaba lixesha lokukhulelwa umntwana osuswini, nendlela yokwenza okulungileyo.
Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela indlela yokuyeka ukondla ngobumnene nangentlungu ukuze ungaboni ukukhathazeka komntwana.
Ngaba kubuhlungu kangakanani ukukhulelwa umntwana osuswini?
Uninzi lwaogqirha banamhlanje luyavuma ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuthambisa isisu esibelekweni sesisu ngokunyanisekileyo nangokuthe ngcembe. Eyaziwayo kwiintsuku zoomama kunye nogogo indlela yokumisa ngokukhawuleza ukutya, xa umntwana esethunyelwa kwizihlobo kwixesha elithile, kwaye umama wamane wamtshiza amabele, namhlanje akukhuthazwa ukuba asebenzise nabani na.
Le ndlela enobugwenxa kwaye inzima yinto ephazamisayo kabini kwintsana, kuba ixeshanye ihlala ngaphandle kwebele, kwaye ingenamama onothando nonomdla. Ukongezelela, kwabasetyhini le ndlela ingabangela ukuphuhliswa kweengxaki ezinzima, ezifana nesifo se- mastitis , kunye nokusetyenziswa kwayo nayiphi na imeko ihamba kunye ne-malaise jikelele kunye nempawu ezintle.
Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, unqabe ukunyamezela imvumba ngendlela engokwemvelo. Kuthatha ixesha elide kwaye ngoko akufanelekanga kwiimeko apho umama aphephe ngokukhawuleza ukuvelisa ubisi, okanye unyanzelekile ukuba ayeke ukutyisa ezinye izizathu.
Kuzo zonke iimeko, xa umfazi sele enqumle ukuthambisa umntwana kumbele, umzekelo, unyaka okanye uneminyaka engama-2, kucetyiswa ukuba ulandele la maqhinga alandelayo:
- Into yokuqala yokuyenza kukuba ukhansele konke ukutya okungekho mfuneko kumntwana, ukuba kukho na. Umzekelo, amanye abantwana asele asekhulile asetyenziselwa kwisifuba sikamama xa kukho into exhalabileyo, ediniweyo okanye ephazamisekile. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo kucetyiswa ukuba umntu athathe umntwana, atshintshe ingqalelo kwimidlalo, ukuphuhlisa iiklasi, ukuhlamba okanye ukuhamba. Ukuba uphumelele, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba umntwana ubona ukutya kuphela njengendlela yokwanelisa indlala.
- Ukongezelela kubalulekile ukuba umntwana ahlale ephupha emini, angafaki isicelo kwisifuba. Yenza isondlo ngaphambi kokuba ulale ukuze ufunde iifriythi okanye uhlabe iillabies .
- Yeka ukunika umntwana intsasa ngokukhawuleza xa evuka. Vuka phambi komntwana, ngexesha lokumenza u-mush, sebenzisa uncedo lukagogo, okanye ulungiselele isidlo sakusasa kwi-multivark.
- Emva koko ncothule umntwana usondle ngaphambi kokulala. Qinisekisa ukumnika isidlo esinomdla kwaye uhlawule ixesha elaneleyo
isithethe sokumbeka embhedeni. - Ekugqibeleni, emva kwayo yonke into, qhubeka ukhansela ubusuku bokutya. Unganiki isifuba, nangona zonke izicelo zakhe neemfuno. Qhubeka uphinde uzame ukuzinzisa umntwana ngezinye iindlela-unike ibhotile yamanzi, ufunde okanye ugubungele umntwana. Kakade, oku akufanele kwenziwe xa umntwana egula, okanye amazinyo akhe atyunyiwe. Kuzo zonke ezinye iziganeko, kuba nomonde kwaye uqiniseke ngokuchanekileyo kwezenzo zakho. Akunjalo lula njengoko kutshabalalisa umntwana osuswini ebusuku, njengoko kubonakala ngathi, kodwa unokwenza ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ukuba ufuna.