Ngokufika kwintsana endlini, abazali abaninzi baba yiengcali kule mimandla engayinakuyithobeli. Kakade ke, ubuchule bokufudumala ubisi kwiibhotile ezincinane okanye ukukhwabanisa umntwana akuyi kufuneka kwixesha elizayo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho izinto oza kulufuna ukuyiqonda, ubuncinci de ukuba inkunzi igqibe isikolo esiphakathi. Enye yezi zihloko ziyi-toys.
Ungakhetha njani ukuba udlalele umntwana wakho? Ngaba yena ngokwakhe ubonisa into eyimfuneko kuye okanye ngaba uyayigcina ilungelo lokuthenga ngokuzimeleyo into efanelekileyo ngakumbi kuye? Ngaba uyazi ukuba yiziphi iingozi ze-psyche kunye nempilo yabantwana onokufihlwa ngamathoyizi anamhlanje? Njengoko bathetha, ngubani obonwe ngaphambili uxhobile. Yiba nesilumkiso sokubonelela umntwana kunye nophuhliso oluhambelanayo.
"Iimpawu zokudlala"
Njengoko uyazi, ukudlala ixesha elide ngumsebenzi oyintloko womntwana. Kwaye umsebenzi oyintloko wabazali kukukhetha amathoyizi afanelekileyo kwixesha lakhe kwaye akhuthaze uphuhliso lwakhe. Kulo mbuzo, umntu kufuneka aphendule kwiqondo leengqondo:
- ukusuka kwiintsuku ezili-10 ubudala umntwana uqala ukulungisa into ehamba phambi kwakhe, kwaye ngenyanga leyo sele sele iphulaphule izandi kwaye ibheka yonke into ehamba kakuhle phambi kwayo. Iimidlalo zokuqala kule minyaka zizinto ezihlukahlukeneyo kunye nezinto zomculo, okumele zichaneke kwizinga le-50 cm ukusuka kwamehlo;
- Kwiinyanga ezi-4 umntwana uqala ukubamba ngesandla konke okuthandayo. Ngeli xesha, izigulane ezigqibeleleyo ezinezibambo ezinde, apho umntwana uya kubamba khona, kwaye uguqule ithoyiyi esandleni esisodwa ukuya kwesinye;
- ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-6 zomntwana abanomdla kuphela kwimimbala eqaqambileyo yamathoyizi, kodwa kunye noko "bayithandayo". Nayiphi na into enomdla kumntwana ngokukhawuleza ifika emlonyeni wakhe. Ngako oko kubalulekile ukusebenzisa i-rattles kwiplastiki yokutya, nge-surface ebusayo;
- Ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-8 umntwana uqala ukukhupha ngokukhawuleza izandi ezivela ezintweni aze alandele imithetho ye-physics - ingqongqo, ukuvula, ukudonsa, ukuyila, ukuhla. Kule njongo, umntwana ufaneleke ngokufanelekileyo kwiibhokisi ezahlukeneyo, iidonki zokuzilalisa, izando, njl.;
- Ngonyaka o-1 umntwana uqala izenzo ezinentsingiselo ngezinto. Umzekelo, ukudonsa i-spoon emlonyeni wakho, uqhube umatshini wokubhala, uqhube ibhola, ubonise kwiindawo ezihlukeneyo zobuso kwaye wazi indlela ababizwa ngayo. Kule ncwadi yobudala eneempawu eziqhakazileyo, iibhola kunye nedayisi zilungile;
- kwiminyaka emi-2 nomntwana kubalulekile ukudibanisa imixholo kunye nemibala, iifom kunye neepropati zezinto. Kule nto, iikhabhi, iibhola kwi-strip-colored strip kunye neenkcukacha ezahlukeneyo zomakhi womthi wezingane ziya kwenza;
- kwiminyaka engama-2,5 umntwana sele sele ezimeleyo angakhetha izifundo ezivela kwimimiselo engundoqo engama-4. Ukulungelelanisa ngokufanelekileyo kwezi nqanaba zeesidlo. Kulo nyaka unako ukuthenga ithoyiji yokudlala ukuze umntwana afunde ukubeka izicathulo kunye neenkinobho zokukhawuleza;
- Kwiminyaka emithathu abantwana bakhetha imidlalo yokudlala indima. Ingaba lijoni, ugqirha, umgcini wezinwele, njl. Kwiimidlalo ezinjalo, iisethi ezizodwa zithengiswa;
- abasondele kwiminyaka emithandathu ubudala abantwana banomdla kwiidonki, ukuhamba, izinja ezininzi, iinqwelo, ii-cubs nezinye izidalwa ezinokusetyenziswa kwimidlalo yokudlala. Kwakhona, ungayikhohlwa ngempilo kwaye uqaphele iibhola, iipopu, izithintelo zokunqumla, njl. Into ebalulekileyo ekukhethweni kwakho akufanele ibe ngumfanekiso kunye nemibala eqaqambileyo, kodwa umdlalo weetoyiti ukuya kwintsana yomntwana kunye nokukhusela kwayo kwengqondo yengane.
Ngendlela, malunga ne-psyche
Ngaba uye wakha wazibuza ukuba i-hare enemibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka (engabikho kwindalo), okanye ibhere elipinki (umbala onjengelo hlobo, awukho) uphendukela kwimbonakalo yehlabathi kumntwana? Kwaye oku akuthethi ngeemveliso ezininzi ezivela eChina, apho abantu abadala banakho ukuza kuhlasela intliziyo. Ngoko, makhe sibone ukuba yiziphi izingozi ezifihlakeleyo kumathoyizi, ukwenzela ukuba ungabi phantsi kwebhanki labenzi bezinto zokuthengisa.
Ngekhulu lama-20, izazi zeengqondo zakhetha amaqela amabini amathoyizi.
1. Amathoyizi afanelekileyo anama-parameters alandelayo:
- ihambelana nexesha kunye nophuhliso lomntwana;
- bancedisayo abanolwazi ngolwazi lwehlabathi elijikelezile;
- iprototype yento ethile okanye into ekhoyo kwendalo;
- kwimeko efanelekileyo - eyenziwe ngezandla zentsana.
2. Amathoyizi anempembelelo embi kwi-psyche yengane:
- abafileyo (izinto ezahlukeneyo ezenza imisebenzi emininzi kunye nezicwangciso);
- ukuxhamla kunye nokungenanto (iikopi ezimbi zezinto eziphilayo, imifanekiso, njl);
- ukuziphatha kakubi nokuziphatha okubi (amathoyizi asejeshi, kunye nalawo akhuthaza ubundlobongela, imfazwe nokutshabalalisa).
Amagama ambalwa malunga nomgangatho weetayi
Ukongeza kwindlela yokubonakala, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela izinto ezisetyenzisiweyo. Xa uthengela ama-rattles angenisekanga, musa ukulibala ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuluma aze akhohlwe. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha kunele ngokwaneleyo ukubeka amathoyizi anjalo ezandleni zakho ukwenza impilo yakho ibe nzima. Emva kobunqamlezo bembala eqaqambileyo zixhobo ezincinci zokwenziwa kunye nezinto ezinobuthi ezinobuthi. Kuzo zonke iindidi ezahlukileyo kwiivenkile zokuzonwabisa zabantwana, ubuncinane i-15% ayihambisani nesiqhelo. Zineemichiza ezifana ne-plastisol, i-phenol, i-formaldehyde kunye ne-mercury. Ukuze ungenzi iphutha ngokukhetha, kubalulekile ukukhumbula iimpawu zamathoyizi enegama "elibi": "Insimi", "Iilwanyana", "Ukusekwa kwezingane" kunye ne "Just Foko Baby". Kwakhona kufanelekile ukunyamekela ingqalelo kubantwana abangaphantsi komnyaka omnye kunye neengqungquthela zentsana ezikhutshwe yiinkampani "Musical Mobile", "Iimfino ezonwabileyo", "iNfants Toys".
Ngelishwa, akukho mntu ujongayo izikhombisi zeendlela zokucoceka kunye nezempilo. Ewe, kunye neengqondo zengqondo ziyaqhubeka zivakala i-alamu - ngokuphindaphindiweyo iitys zidala ingxaki yengqondo kubantwana. Benza abantwana babe nobudlova kunye nobubi. Ezi zinto zifunyenwe ngumntwana kwiminyaka eyi-2.5 ukuya kweyesi-5, ixesha elide lihlala likhunjulwe kwaye lichaphazela ubomi bakhe kwikamva. Cinga indlela umntwana oza kukhula ngayo, odlala kunye namajoni kwizinto eziyingozi ezenziwe ngetsimbi okanye ngezilwanyana ezivela kwiimifanekiso ezidumileyo eziqhelekileyo ebusweni babo. Kwaye iifayili zekhompyutha ezingamniki umntwana ithuba lokuzicingela nokuthetha ngazo, zingakhokelela ekungeneni kwephuhliso.
Kwakhona, ukuya esitolo sezingane, khumbula inyaniso elula - ithoyizi kufuneka ithwale umsebenzi wokuzonwabisa, kodwa nento yokufundisa umntwana. Ukuba ukhathazekile ukuba umntwana wakho unokucela ukuba athenge i-monster kuye, ungambonisi iikhathuni apho unokubona khona le monster.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ngaphambi kokukhononda ngabavelisi abangenanto, jonga. Uninzi lwabazali banamhlanje banomatasa kangangokuthi banikela abantwana babo kwiTV kunye nezifundo eziqhaqhaqhaqhaqayo ezingafanelanga ukubizwa ngokuba ngamathoyizi. Bambalwa abantu bayakuvuyela ukuva ukuba wabulala ingqondo yengane ngezandla zakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ucinga malunga nokuba yintoni kunye nendlela umntwana edlala ngayo, inyaniso iya kuba yimbi kunokuba ibonakala. Khumbula - ikusasa lomntwana wakho usezandleni zakho. Yaye makabe yinto yokudlala eyilungileyo kunye eluncedo kumntwana.