Iincwadi zeengqondo zifanelekile ukufunda

Xa ufuna ukuziqonda wena, emphefumlweni wakho, ungakhangeli iimpendulo emehlweni kwimeko yakho. Ngezihlandlo ezibalulekileyo, abacebisi abakhulu baya kuba yiincwadi zeengqondo, ezifanele ukufunda, okokuqala, okokuqala, kungekhona ngesicelo somhlobo okanye omnye umntu. Ziyintoni ukusetyenziswa kwezi ncwadi xa kubonakala ngathi ihlabathi liyawa kwaye akukho nto ingayiphilisa umphefumlo? Yilapho ifuneka khona. Uncwadi olunjalo luyakwazi ukwandisa imbono yehlabathi, uvule amehlo ethu kwizinto ezininzi ezingaziwa ngaphambili, ngaloo ndlela kubonisa ukuba, nokuba yintoni imeko, kuhlale kuphuma indlela.

Iincwadi eziphambili zengqondo

1. "Bamba njengomculi. 10 Izifundo zoBuqubulo bokuziCoca, uO.Conon . Encwadini yomculi osemtsha, ubuntu obunobumba, umbhali, umfundi ufunda indlela yokubonakalisa amandla akhe angaphakathi, indlela yokuguqula izinto eziqhelekileyo zibe yinto engavamile, indlela yokudweba iingcamango kunoma yiyiphi na, nokuba yinto encinci. Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba umbhali wenza izifundo ezili-10, esekelwe kumava akhe. Emva kwayo yonke into, ngexesha elithile, xa eqala ukuzijonga, naye wayeyifunayo le zifundo eziluleko.
2. "Amadoda avela eMars, abafazi baseVenus", J. Gray . I-American psychologist yentsapho, ngoncedo lwecandelo leencwadi zakhe, alondolozi nanye iziko lentsapho ekuqhawuleni umtshato. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba amadoda namabhinqa bacinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kodwa inkolelo ihlala ingcamango. Ngokuphathelele kwisicelo esisebenzayo, abaninzi bayakulibala malunga nale nto kwaye ngenxa yoko bahlala kwisiqhekeza esiphukileyo. Ubudlelwane bunjani uhlobo lomsebenzi apho kufuneka uhlale ekhuthele, ukuphucula ngokwakho bobabini abalingani.
3. "Yenza wena. Iingcebiso kulabo abafuna ukushiya uphawu lwabo, "T. Sylig . Ukufunda iincwadi zengqondo akunakwenzeka kuphela ngenjongo yokuzonwabisa, kodwa kunye nomnqweno wokufezekisa ukukhula komntu. Emva kokuba umcinga waseMerika uRalph Waldo Emerson wathi: "Zithintele kuyo yonke into enokuyenza." Kwaye ukuba le nto "yonke" yomntu inokwenza izinto ezithandwayo, umdla, ngoko uTina Siling uza kuxela kwincwadi yakhe indlela yokuyijika kwimisebenzi yokuthengisa, apho ukudweba iingcamango nendlela yokuziphucula ngayo, ukuze kuphunyezwe yonke into eyenziwe.
4. "Imidlalo ekudlalwa ngabantu," u-E . Bern . Incwadi engabonakaliyo yengqondo yintando yendalo yendalo yengqondo. Ngubani owathi sonke sidlala imidlalo nje ngomntwana? Njengabantu abadala, basithi, batshintshile baba yinto engathí sina, bafaka iimaski zabo kunye nomntu, ngamanye amaxesha bangaziqondi, badlale imidlalo kunye nabanye abantu, ngeenxa zonke.
5. "Iimvavanyo kwi-psychology yobundlobongela", uZ . Freud . Umsunguli we- psychoanalysis enzulu wanikela ubomi bakhe bonke ekufundeni ubudlelwane bezesondo phakathi kwabantu. Kule ncwadi, ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yakho, unokufumana inkcazelo enomdla echaphazelekayo engaphezulu kweminyaka elilishumi.

Iincwadi eziphambili zengqondo zabasetyhini

1. "Kutheni ungatshatanga?", UT . Macmillan . Iingcebiso abaza kuzifumana kule ncwadi zihlolwe ngumlobi ngokwenza. Ngendlela, emsebenzini wakhe uvula amehlo akhe kwizinto ezishiye ngaphandle kwendawo yokuqwalaselwa okuphezulu, kwaye ngenxa yokuba amadoda afuni ukudala intsapho kunye nabafazi abanjalo. I-Macmillan iya kubonisa ukuba wonke umntu unokufumana uvuyo
2. "Ukutya akuyona ingxaki. Ungahlala njani uxolo kunye nawe kunye nomzimba wakho? ", J. Ros . Kwihlabathi lohlanga olungapheliyo lwabo lonwabo, ukuphakanyiswa kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, abaninzi abanalo ixesha lokunyamekela labo abalingani babo. Ukuze ulahlekelwe isisindo, akwanele ukukhawulela ukutya. Kubalulekile ukuhlaziya izicwangciso zakho. Oku kwaye akunakufundwa kuphela ngokufunda le ncwadi.