Ibhayisiki yentsha yabantombazana

Ibhayisekile yindlela yokuthandayo yokuhamba kubantwana beeminyaka ezahlukeneyo, zombini amakhwenkwe namantombazana. Njengomthetho, umntwana, efumene "umhlobo wesinyithi" onjalo njengesipho, uzama ukuchitha lonke ixesha naye. Yingakho ibhayisekile akufuneki ukuba imkholise umnini wayo kuphela, kodwa yinto ekhululekile kwaye iphephile kuye.

Kule nqaku, siza kukuxelela ukuba ukhangele ntoni xa ukhetha nokuthenga ibhasikiya yeshumi elivisayo kumantombazana ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-8 ukuya kwe-13 ukukholisa umntwana kwaye ungadangali xa uthenge.

Unokukhetha njani ibhayisiki elivisayo kwintombazana?

Ukuze ukhethe ibhayisikili efanelekileyo kwintombazana eselula, kufuneka ulandele iziphakamiso ezinokuthi:

1. Yiya kwisitoreji kunye neyakho inzala kwaye ungathengi impahla kwiivenkile ze-intanethi. Abaselula sele benomdla, kwaye kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukukholisa, ngoko shiya intombi yakho inelungelo lokugqiba ukuba yiyiphi ibhasi eliza kulikhwela. Ukongezelela, le ntombazana iya kukwazi ukuvavanya ngokuthe ngqo kwisitoreji ayithandayo kwaye ibone ukuba uyayikhulula ngokwaneleyo.
2. Ukuba nangasiphi na isizathu usenenjongo yokuya kwisitoreji ngaphandle komntwana, qaphela ngokuphakame ukuphakama kwayo kunye nobude bengalo ukusuka kolunye uhlangothi. Ngokuncedwa kwezi parameters, umcebisi-mthengisi uya kuthatha i- bike efanelekileyo kakhulu intombazana yakho.
3. Musa ukuthenga ibhayisekile "ngokukhula". Kule meko, umntwana akayi kukhululeka ukuhamba, okwenyuka ukwanda okukhulu komthwalo kwi-squelette kwaye, ngokukodwa, umgudu. Isiphumo esinjalo sinokuyingozi kwimizimba ekhulayo kwaye kwezinye iimeko kunokukhokelela kwimiphumo engathintekiyo.
4. Iibhayisikile ezincinane kumantombazana aneminyaka engama-7 ubudala zenziwa ngemibala eyahlukileyo, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo amaxesha amancinane amafesistiya aphupha ngeempawu zeentyantyambo ezimhlophe okanye ezipinki.
5. Ukuba iimpawu zomzimba zomntwana wakho zihambelana nemimiselo yobudala, mhlawumbi, iya kufumana ibhayisekile kunye neesondo elinesisentimitha ezingama-24. Nangona kunjalo, bonke abantwana ngabanye, kwaye intombi yakho inokuba yinto elula kakhulu kwizothutho kunye nobuncinci okanye ubukhulu beevili.
6. Kwakhona qiniseka ukuba uqaphele ukuphakama kwesakhelo. Ukuba intombi yakho iphakanyiswa, imilenze kunye nokubamba zombini izandla emva kwesondo lebhayisiki, isakhelo sayo kufuneka sibe khona malunga no-10 cm ngaphantsi kwe-perineum yayo. Kule meko, le ntombazana iya kuhlala phantsi kwaye ikhuphuke isuka kuye "ihashe yensimbi".
7. Ekugqibeleni, ngokubhekiselele kulophawu, apha bonke abazali bakhetha imodeli eqwalasela inani lemali abaceba ukuyisebenzisa xa kuthengwa ibhayisekile. Eyona nto ibhetele kwizithuthi zentombazana yabalimi abanjengo: Ifomathi, i-Kross, i-Specialized, i-Element ne-Orbea.