Yintoni abazali abayenzayo xa umntwana ehlaselwa yintloko yakhe?
Bonke abantwana bavame ukuwa bebethe. Ngokuqwalaselwa kwabazali, umntwana unokuwa kwitafile eguqukayo okanye embhedeni womzali. Umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa ubudala, eqala ukuhamba yedwa, udla ngokuwa kunye nokukhwaza intloko yakhe malunga neendonga okanye izinto zendalo. Ngaphezu koko, amandla onke amaxhoba, kwi-90% yamatyala, awela ngqo entloko, ekubeni ukuhamba kwezingane ezincinci kungabonakaliswa, kwaye kunzima kubo ukuba bahlule ekwindla.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba le nzakala ayiyiyo ingozi yokuphila. Ukuba akukho nxeba evulekile entloko, kwaye umntwana uyazi, oku kulungile kakhulu.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukuba ukhangele ukuba umntwana unengxaki. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uhlolisise imeko yayo jikelele emva kokushaya ikhanda lakho kwaye uqinisekise ukuba akukho zibonakaliso ezithile ezifana:
- ukulahleka kwengqondo, kubandakanywa nexesha elifutshane (imizuzwana embalwa);
- ukuhlanza okuphindaphindiweyo;
- zixhala;
- ukuzelazela okanye, ngokugqithiseleyo, ukulala;
- intloko;
- ukulahleka kwesidlo;
- ukukrokra, i-pallor kunye nobuthathaka jikelele.
Kwiintsana ezi zibonakaliso zingabonakaliswa ngakumbi, kodwa kunzima ukuzichazela. Esikhundleni sokuhlanza kumntwana omncinci oye wathintela intloko, kudla ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye ukuguqa kunokutshintshwa ngokuhlaselwa okanye ukukhala. Ngamanye amaxesha, iingxaki zengxubusho kunye neengcambu zingagwetywa ukuba, emva kokuba umntwana sele ekhwelile intloko, ubushushu bakhe buvukile.
Ngoko ke, xa ubona ezimbalwa okanye ubuncinane enye yeempawu ezichazwe ngasentla, izenzo zakho kufuneka zingabi ncamango - biza i-ambulensi kwaye uye esibhedlele ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa nangona kungabikho imiqondiso ecacileyo yokuxubusha, kucetyiswa ukuba udibane nogqirha kwaye ukhusele ekubeni ungasifumani ixesha elide ukufumanisa ukulimala kwentloko kunye nemiphumo yayo.