Ukulibaziseka ukuphuhliswa kwentetho yinto ethandekayo yokutshatyalaliswa kweminyaka yamuva. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho bucala beminyaka yobudala xa umntwana emele athethe. Kuwo wonke umntu ukubunjwa kwentetho kwenzeka ngabanye phantsi kwefuthe lezinto ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo. Kodwa ukuba umntwana engathethi eneminyaka eyi-3, oku kufuneka kuqatshelwe.
Kutheni umntwana engathethi?
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba umntwana wakho angathuli, oku:
- ukuphazamiseka kokuzalwa kunye neengxaki zegazi. Ngelishwa, ngexesha lokubeletha, kukho ukulimala kwengqondo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuphuhliswa kweengxaki ezilandelayo. Njengomthetho, oku kuqondwa ukuba umntwana ufumana iimviwo zokuphepha eziyimfuneko kunye neengcali. Kodwa nangona kunjalo akuthinteli ukujongana kwakhona kwi-neurologist ukuqinisekisa okanye ukungabandakanyi isifo ngokwepropati yayo;
- I-Autism isifo sengqondo esichazwe ngumntwana ovaliweyo kunye nokungafuni ukudibanisa;
- iingxaki ngokuva. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kuba yinto engamangalisiyo kubazali abangazange bakrokre ukugula okunjalo;
- "ukunyanzelwa" . Ukuba umntwana sele sele eseneminyaka emithathu ubudala, kwaye engakathethi, mhlawumbi umntwana uye wenza okuncane. Kwaye silapha singathethi malunga nophuhliso oluthile lobuchule, kodwa malunga nokuqhagamshelana ngokomzwelo, iincwadi zokufunda, imidlalo edibeneyo;
- intetho yokungahambi kakuhle komntwana. Umntwana akafuni ukuthetha ukuba uvakalelwa ukuba uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo lwabantu abadala, abasoloko bemdonsa "bathetha" kwaye "baphinda". Ukuba ukungafuni ukuthetha komntwana kufanele kuhlwaywe, ngoko imeko yokulibaziseka kokuthetha inokugqithiswa kuphela yi-neurosis.
Kuthekani ukuba umntwana engathethi?
- Ukutyelela i-psychologist, i-neuropathologist kunye nodokotela wengxoxo ukuze ufumane isizathu sokubambezeleka kokuthetha.
- Ukuthetha ngakumbi nomntwana. Ngelishwa, abazali bazama ukuhlawulela ukungabikho kwengqwalasela ngamathoyizi kunye neekhathuni. Umyalelo okhoyo udinga ukutshintshwa ngokukhawuleza, ukunikela ingqwalasela engakumbi kwiinkcukacha ezilula kunye nokudibanisa.
- Khuthaza ukuphuhliswa komsebenzi wokuthetha ngokufunda iincwadi, ukujonga imifanekiso, imibuzo ephakamisayo, kodwa ungacinezeli umntwana.
- Sebenzisa i-gymnastics yesundu ekuphuhliseni izakhono zezithuthi ezilungileyo, ezihambelana ngqo nentetho.
- Sebenzisa ubuchule ukuphuhlisa ingqwalasela kunye nokunyangwa kwentetho ukuqinisa imisipha yobuso.