Akunzima ukwakha umthi wofuzo, kodwa oku kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nolwazi olupheleleyo malunga namalungu entsapho yakho, ubuncinane izizukulwana ezintathu ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakho. Ngabo bonke okhokho benu kufuneka niziqaphele igama, igama kunye nomntu onobumba, kunye nomhla wokuzalwa kunye nomhla wokufa.
Ukongezelela, xa udala umthi wofuzo, kufuneka unqume ukuba luhlobo luni lwentsapho oluya kubonakaliswa kuyo - ezinye izicwangciso ziqulethe zonke iindwendwe ezisondeleyo kwilungu ngalinye lentsapho, kanti abanye, umzekelo, ababandakanyi abatshatileyo abangengamalungu entsapho yakho .
Ngokuqinisekileyo, izizukulwana ezithe xa uphila kumthi wokhokho wakho, ziza kufundisa kwaye zinomdla, nangona kunjalo, ngeliso, akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kuba abantu banamhlanje abakhathaleli ingqalelo kwimbali yookhokho babo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo umthi wofuzo uyacelwa abantwana besikolo kwimisebenzi yabasebenzi okanye ubugcisa bokubukeka, ngoko ke banceda ukuba bafunde ubuncinci malunga neentsapho zabo.
Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela indlela yokunceda umntwana athathe umthi wentsapho nge ipensela elula okanye ipeniti yokuzizwa.
Indlela yokudweba umthi wentsapho ngezigaba?
- Okokuqala, kufuneka uqikelele ngokucacileyo ukuba unobani kunye nokudibanisa kohlobo oluya kubandakanya umthi wakho. Qinisekisa ukuba ingaba isithuba esingakanani esiza kuthatha kwaye, ngokuxhomekeka kuyo, kwiphepha elikhulu, udwebe umthi obungakanani obukhulu. Dweba nge pensile elula, kuba, mhlawumbi, kuya kufuneka ususe amaxesha amaninzi kwaye utshintshe ubungakanani bawo kunye nobungakanani.
- Bhala igama lomntwana kwisichazo. Umthi wethu uya kukhula kwicala elichaseneyo, faka igama lokuqala ukuze kubekho indawo eyaneleyo yohlobo lweentsapho ezahlukeneyo.
- Yongeza abazali. Umama noTata, beka ngaphantsi kwegama lomntwana, noodade kunye nabazalwana (ukuba kukho) - kwinqanaba elifanayo, kwaye ukuze amagatsha omthi axhumane nawo nabazali bawo. Kule nqanaba, ukuba ukhona, unokongeza abatshati kunye nabantwana babazalwana kunye nodade abadala be-schoolboy.
- Ukuqhubela phambili umthi wethu uqala ukuphuma ngaphandle - songeza oogogo, oomkhulu, kunye neentsapho eziseduze zikayise nomama, umzekelo, unina kunye nomalume womntwana, kunye nabantwana babo, okokuthi, abazala kunye noodadewabo.
- Hlanganisa izizukulwana ezininzi njengoko ufunayo, kwaye ngubani owaziyo ngaye. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, unokwandisa umfanekiso.
- Xa usuqedile ukubeka yonke inkcazelo ebalulekileyo, cima yonke imizila eyongezelelweyo, uze udwebe umgca odibeneyo wepensile. Umthi ngokwawo unokuba ngopende njengoko ufuna.
Ukudalwa kwemithi yentsapho kuthatha indlela ecacileyo, kwaye akukho sikimu esicacileyo sokwenza. Emva koko, kwintsapho nganye inani elithile lalamane, umntu uyayazi imbali yohlobo lwawo ngezizukulwana ezininzi ngaphambili, kwaye abanye abazi bani ngaphezu koogogo babo, kwaye akukho ndawo yokufumana ulwazi kubo. Ukongezelela, unokwenza umthi wobomi bentsapho njengoko uthandayo - akuyimfuneko ukuba ubonise njengomthi wangempela kunye namagatsha kunye namaqabunga.
Ukwenza isicwangciso sakho, unokusebenzisa umzekelo omnye, ubonise indlela onokuyifumana ngayo umthi wentsapho:
- Dweba i-trunk yomthi wethu namasebe awo.
- Emva koko, kumasebe, simelela isithsaba ngendlela yamafu amahlamvu.
- Kulo lonke i-krona sibeka iifowuni, kamva kuya kufuneka badityanise kwizithombe zookhokho bakho kunye neentsapho zabo. Inani leefayili lixhomekeke kumnqweno wakho kunye nolwazi olufumanekayo.
- Ungasebenzisa iisampula zeefowuni ezidweliswe ngezantsi, okanye ungabamba njengoko ukucinga kwakho kukuxelela. Into ephambili kukuba zonke iifowuni zomthi omnye ziyafana - oku kuya kunika umfanekiso ochanekileyo.
Nantsi inguqu yoyilo olugqibeleleyo lomthi wentsapho. Ungalibali ukunamathisa iifoto uze usayine idatha epheleleyo yelungu ngalinye lentsapho.
