Indima yokungakwaziyo ebomini yomntu wonke inkulu kakhulu. Iimpawu, izakhono kunye nemikhwa zinezizathu ezingenalwazi. Ukuqwashisa yonke imithetho yokusebenzisana nokuqonda, ukuphononongwa kwepropati kunye nobuchule bokungazi, kwenza umntu ngamnye ahambe ngokuzithemba ebomini, aphucule ukuphumelela kwezenzo zawo, ukulungisa iingxaki zabo zobomi ngempumelelo.
Ukungazi nto kwengqondo kubonisa ukuba zonke iinkqubo zengqondo, iziganeko, izenzo kunye namazwe, kwimpembelelo nokusebenza apho umntu akakwazi ukuziqonda. Balala ngaphandle kwengqondo yomntu, bengazi kakuhle kwaye abanakulawulwa ngokuqonda, ubuncinane ngexesha elithile. Umveleli wezinto ezingenanto engqondweni yomntu kunye necandelo lonke leengqondo ezingenalwazi nguSigmund Freud. Wayengomnye wabokuqala ukuphakamisa umbuzo wokungalungi kokuchongwa kwengqondo kunye neengqondo zabantu. UFrud ukholelwa ukuba iingxaki zokungazi kakuhle zilungele ukuziphatha kwabantu.
Ezi zilandelayo zintlobo ezingenalwazi ziyaziwa:
- Ingqondo engokwemvelo, equlethwe yimvelo, iqhuba, iqokelelane. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba igama elithi "ukungazibandakanyi ngokuhlangeneyo" lwafakwa kwincwadi yengqondo yengqondo yiSwitzerland psychotherapist K.G. Jung. Ukungazibandakanyi ndawonye, ngokutsho kweJung - kukungena kwexesha lezenzo zeentloko zezilwanyana. Kubonakaliswe yinyaniso yokuba umxholo wayo awuzange ube nokuqonda kwaye uzuze kwifa.
- Inkqubo yomntu okanye umntu ongaziwayo iqulethwe kwizinto eziqulathwe ngaphambili, kodwa ekugqibeleni zinyamalale.
- Iimeko eziphuhlisiwe ezingenalo nto yilezo zakhono,
izakhono, imikhwa, ukunyakaza ngokuzenzekelayo - amava aqala ukudala ukususela ebuntwaneni kwaye uyaqhubeka eqokelela ubomi bethu. - Umfundi ongenalwazi ngumntu, okubizwa ngokuba yi-social consciousness, ezo zimo zengqondo ezivela phantsi kwefuthe lobomi bezempilo kwinkqubo yemfundo, iziganeko zokuziphatha ezenziwe phantsi kwefuthe labantu.
Ukungenazi nto kubangele ubuninzi beenkcukacha, amava kunye neenkumbulo, okungaphezulu kwebala elibonakalayo lokuqonda komntu ngamnye. Fumana ukufikelela kulo mthwalo wokuphila akulula, kodwa umntu ophumelelayo uya kulibala ngonaphakade kwintsimi yomsebenzi.