Usuku lokuza kwexesha lunomdla kubo bonke abaselula, kuba, ngokombono wabo, iingcango ezintsha zokuba zikhulile phambi kwabantu. Abaninzi abaselula bafuna ukuchitha le holide ngokungenakulibala, kwaye baqala ukulungiselela oko kusengaphambili kwiiveki ezimbalwa.
Iyintoni impumelelo yabantu abadala?
Isimo sengqondo malunga nomhla xa uninzi lwasunguli lomthendeleko luza, abazali bakhe kunye nomthetho bahluke ngokupheleleyo.
Ngamantombazana eli xesha elixhasayo libonwa njengokukhululwa komzali kunye nokunyamekela, ukuzimela okukhulu kunye nethuba lokwenza isigqibo. Ngokwenza oko, kwii-expanses zamazwe aseSoviet, i-passport yobudala ayisoloko ihambelana nokuqala komntu omdala, ekubeni umntwana osemtsha, ufumana imfundo, ngokwezimali kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uyaxhomekeka kubazali bakhe.
Abazali abaqondi ukuba ukufumana abantwana abadala kunye nabaselula, abantwana babo bahlala bengabantwana. Ngelishwa, uninzi lwabazali banamhlanje luqhubeka nokuxhasa abantwana abadala, ngokukhawuleza ukunciphisa ukukhula kwabo ngokwenene.
Ukususela kumbono wemiqathango yelizwe amaninzi ehlabathini, uninzi lwafika eneminyaka eyi-18. Ngoluninzi loluntu sithetha ukuvela kwamandla asemthethweni ngokupheleleyo kunye nokukwazi ukuchaza kwangaphambili imiphumo yezenzo zabo, kunye nebhethri epheleleyo kubo. Uninzi lwabantu aluhlali luhambelana nobudala bezabasebenzi, kunye nethuba lokusebenzisa amalungelo abo kwintando yezopolitiko. Kwiinkqubo zomthetho ezahlukileyo nakwamanye amazwe, ubudala bezomthetho buninzi bunemilinganiselo yobudala.
Ukubhiyozela abantu abadala?
Uninzi lwaba selula mhla bafika ubudala, bafuna ukukhumbula ixesha elide.
Ngokudla kaninzi kunokuba, abatsha abafikayo abadala bayamema abahlobo abaninzi ngangokunokwenzeka. Kufuneka kwenziwe kwangaphambili, ukuze wonke umntu anakekele isipho aze aziphathe kakuhle. Eyona nto imnandi iya kuba ngabahlobo, ukuba umkhosi wokubhiyozela ufika kwisimemo ngokucinga, ekuqaliseni izimemo zangaphambili.
Sifanele sicinge malunga nenkqubo yohlwaya kwaye sithenge okanye silungise zonke iimfuno ezifunekayo zokuzonwabisa. Imenyu kunye nolwahlulo lweziphuzo kufuneka lufakwe kwakhona. Ngeziphuzo ungaquka utywala, umzekelo, iwayini.
Emva kokuba samkele yonke into evuyisayo, ukuba sinomncintiswano kunye nesidlo sakusihlwa, kunokwenzeka ukuhamba nabahlobo kwiqela.