Kwengqondo, le nkcazelo ichazwa kumntu onobomi "oqaqambileyo, obuthathekayo, ohamba ngeselula, othethayo." Uthanda ukuba phakathi kwenkxalabo, ubonisa ngokucacileyo iimvakalelo zakhe neemvakalelo zakhe. Ukongezelela, i-impetuous, ikhutshwe ngentshiseko, ingalingani. Unesimo esichukumisayo sengqondo kunye nokucwiliswa okujulileyo kwishishini lakhe elithandayo.
Ngelo xesha, iingcali zeengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ngoku akunakwenzeka ukuhlangabezana nomntu onohlobo olusulungekileyo, oko kungukuthi, abahlali be-choleric kwifomu ecocekileyo. Kuya kubakho ukudibanisa nezinye iintlobo zabalinganiswa. Ixesha elimnandi elixhomekeke kule meko liza kuhlala likhona.
Luhlobo luni lwenkqubo yomnyoba luphawu lomntu okhulile?
Okokuqala, ezi zikhokeli ezibonakalayo ezifuna ukubonakala. Abantu abazungezile bathandwa kwiimpawu zomntu walo mntu. Ukhethi uhlala ezama ukuveza uluvo lwakhe, ngoko ke ngokuqhelekileyo uthathwa njengowona mququzeleli weengxabano. Kuzimeleyo kwaye zizinzile, zisebenza kwaye ziphumli, ziphendule ngokukhawuleza kubo bonke abantu. Intetho yakhe ihlala ihamba kunye nokubonakalisa ubuso kunye nobuqili obukhali.
Yintoni umntu ocholter?
I-Choleric ngumntu ohlala engqondweni yakhe. Ulungile ukufihla imvakalelo yakhe, kwaye wenza zonke izigqibo emva kokuqwalasela ngokucophelela.
Uhlobo lwesimo se-"choleric" luneenkcukacha zedatha. Bakha abantu abancinci bokwakha ngamalungu amancinci athile. Ubuso bunemilo ye-oval kunye nebunzi kunye ne-chin chinqamle.
Iinkonzo kunye neengxaki ze-choleric
Iimpawu zabo ngabantwana kunye nabazali, abantu be-choleric, okufuneka baqwalaselwe ngabantu bonke abajikelezile. I-choleric encinci ngenxa yobudala bakhe ayikwazi ukukhawuleza. Uya kuthukuthela ixesha elide ngenxa yezinto ezincinane. Ukhetha imidlalo, imidlalo enomsindo. Ulala ngokulala kakhulu kwaye ulala ngokungahlali.
Iingcali zengqondo zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba abazali bama-choleric bahlala bexela kunye "nabashushisi basekhaya", kuba bafuna ukuba abantwana babo bangaphantsi. Le ndlela yokuziphatha ichazwa ngamanqaku omhle womzali: ngamnye wabo ufuna ukubona umntwana wakhe uphumelele. Yingakho abantu be-parents-choleric bafuna ukufundisa ngomzekelo wabo wenjongo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu base-choleric abakwazi ukungafani nokunyamekela okukhulu nokunyamekela. Abakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi ozinzileyo. Ngendlela efanelekileyo yokwenza umbutho wabasebenzi, xa ubukhokeli obuphezulu banika ithuba lokuva inkululeko yomntu ongaphantsi, umqeshwa uza kubonisa konke ukunyamezela kwakhe ekuphumezeni injongo.
Ubuntu obunomtsalane ngumphathi we-choleric. Le nkokeli , iphosa kunye nomtyholi bonke baqokelelwe kwelinye. Kuhlala kunzima ukumkholisa. Uhlala kwisiphumo kunye nomdla kumsebenzi. Ukubambisana ekuhlanganiseni kuza kuphela kwimeko apho bonke abangaphantsi kwabo bafezekisa ngokungathandabuzekiyo imiyalelo yayo.
Iingcali zithi kukho nawuphi na umoya onokutshintshwa. Yintoni yokwenza le choleric?
- Okokuqala, emva kokuzama okuncinane, "khupha" impawu yenye ingqondo ebusweni.
- Imvakalelo engalunganga ayinayo, kodwa ingadluli kwabanye.
Into efanelekileyo kukuba uguqulele kwizinto ezintle ngokusebenzisa nokudlala imidlalo. - Bonisa ngakumbi ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo ezintle.
- I-Yoga kunye nokucamngca kuya kunceda ukuphuhlisa i-intuition, ingenzi nje umzimba oguquguqukayo, kodwa ukucinga. Ngenxa yoko, kuya kubakho ukuguquguquka ekusebenzelaneni nabanye. I-Choleric iya kufunda ukujonga ingqwalasela yabanye abantu, jonga imeko ukusuka kwenye indawo.
- Akuyimfuneko ukuzama yonke into kwaye uhlale unkokeli, ukunyanzelisa abanye imisebenzi.