Wonke umntu omdala uyazi ukuba ingilazi yewayini entle kwisidlo okanye isidlo sakusihlwa ayiyi kubuhlungu, kodwa iya kuzuza kuphela. Emva kwakho konke, inkulumo eyaziwayo "Inyaniso ewayini!" Yayibonakala kubo bonke, abadala bazi ukuba isiselo sisebenza njani kakuhle emzimbeni womntu, kwaye sasisebenzisa ngaphandle kokucamngca. Iintlobo zewayini aziyi kuxela kuphela abaphambili, abathandekayo kunye nabathandi abancinane, ukusetyenziswa kwawo, eqinisweni, kwimiqathango eyamkelekileyo, kuya kuqinisekisa izikhanyiso zamachiza. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba usesikhundleni? Musa ukulimaza ingilazi yewayini ngexesha lokukhulelwa kuwe kunye nomntwana wakho kwikamva? Ndiyintoni na iwayini endiyiselayo kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo kwaye kufuneka ndiyenze nhlobo? Masizame ukuqonda le miba kunye neminye imiba ngangokunokwenzeka.
"Ngokuba" okanye "ngokuchasene"? Olubomvu okanye omhlophe?
Ngoko njani? UMbutho WezeMpilo Wehlabathi ubiza abesifazana ukuba bashiye ngokupheleleyo naluphi na utywala ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ngoxa umzekelo, iNkonzo yezeMpilo yaseNgilani, ngokuchaseneyo, ithi kubaluleke kakhulu kubafazi abakhulelweyo ukusela iiglasi zewayini ngeveki. Ngamaxesha angaphambi kweSoviet, oogqirha bancomeka ukuba abafazi besesimweni baphuze ixesha elilodwa iiglasi ezibomvu iwayini elomileyo. Kwakucatshangwa kwaye kukholelwa ukuba iwayini elomileyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa linomphumo omuhle kakhulu kwiinkqubo ze-hematopoiesis, kwaye iyakususa kunye nomzimba wezinto ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinobungozi bomama. Iwayini elimhlophe ngexesha lokukhulelwa aliluncedo ngokukhethekileyo, ngoko kungcono ukwenza ukhetho okwangoku kuluhlu olubomvu. Kodwa apha kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba iwayini, njengawo nawuphi na utywala, ayikwazi ukusetyenziswa ngokuthe ngqo kwiimitha ezimbini zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba ngeli thuba iinkalo zomntwana zenziwe ngokutsha kwaye utswala ngotywala lunokulimaza le nkqubo, nangona uphuza utshwala obuphezulu, ngoko kanye kunye konke kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba iwayini kwiimvavanyo zokuqala zokukhulelwa ayikwazi ukusetyenziswa naluphina.
Kwiminyaka elandelayo iiveki ezikhulelweyo ziza kusela iwayini, kodwa kuyafaneleka ukulandela le mithetho elandelayo:
- iwayini ngexesha lokukhulelwa linokudakwa ngotywala elingqongqo;
- unako ukusela kuphela iwayini elungileyo, ixabiso elikhulu;
- Abafazi abakhulelwe banakho iwayini elibomvu, liphakamisa i-hemoglobin egazini kwaye lisuse i-toxins.
Iwayini inokukhulelwa kangakanani?
Zininzi izizathu zokuba umfazi okhulelwe ufuna ukusela iwayini. Ibhinqa lifuna ukusela kwiinkampani kwidlanga lokuzalwa okanye ngoNyaka omtsha. Ukuba ngaphambi kokuba umfazi athathe umthamo ngokusetyenziswa kotywala ngokufanelekileyo, umnqweno wokusela ngumkhuba olula. Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona umfazi engengomdla wewayini ngaphambi kokukhulelwa, lo mnqweno unokuvela ngokukhawuleza - "umzimba udinga". Njengoko sele sithe satsho, oogqirha baseBritani bacebisa oomama bokamva ukuba baphuze iiglasi ezimbini zewayini elibomvu ngeveki, kodwa musa ukubandakanya lo mgaqo ngokutya rhoqo kunye nokusela iwayini ngesifiso sakho. Phuza iwayini kuphela ukuba ufuna ngokwenene-ingilazi, okanye isiqingatha seglasi ebomvu iwayini elomileyo akukho ngaphezu kweveki enye. Iwayini kufuneka ibe yinto ebonakalisiweyo, ehlonishwayo. Iwayini elizenzelayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa lifanelekileyo ngakumbi kunanoma yintoni enye, kuba kule meko unokuqiniseka ukuba akukho khemistri ekwenzeni kunokukulimaza wena kunye nosana lwakho oluzayo.
Yintoni ejongene nokusetyenziswa kakubi?
Wonke umntu uyazi, kwaye ngowesifazane okhulelweyo ngokukodwa, ukuba yonke into ilungele ukumodareyitha. Khumbula ukuba ukusetyenziswa kotywala ngokugqithiseleyo kungonakalisi nje kuphela, kodwa nakwimbewu yakho.
Ziyinyamekele kunye neminqweno yakho, kodwa akukho nto inokulibala ukuba wena kwaye nguwe kuphela onoxanduva lomntwana wakho!