Abaninzi bethu baqhelana nale meko xa into engavunyelwe ukuba yenze okanye idle, kwaye ukusuka kuloo nto inqatshelwe iba yinto enqwenelekayo. Nangona, ukususa ukuvalwa okunjalo, ukukhangwa kungahle kuphele. Siphakamisa ukuba sifunde intsingiselo yegama elithi "isiqhamo esinqatshelwe sithandeka," kwaye ngubani owokuqala ukulahlwa kwezi ziqhamo, abantu.
Sisiphi isiqhamo esinqatshelwe?
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba isiqhamo esinqatshelwe sisicatshulwa esivela kumzekeliso "Isiqhamo esingavumelekanga sithandeka," sichaza into enqwenelekayo, ukufikelela kuwo okuthintela ngokuthintela. Eli binzana lidibene nebali elide laseTestamente elidala lokuwa kwabantu bokuqala baka-Adam noEva. Ngolwimi lwesiRashiya, intsingiselo yegama elithi popularity isekelwe kwinkcaso "into efunayo, kodwa ayikwazi okanye akanalo ilungelo lokuba nalo." Inxalenye yokuqala ibonakala 'iyinqwenelekayo', "ithandeka", kwaye yesibini - "ayivumelekanga", "ayifumaneki".
Kutheni isiqhamo esivumelekileyo sisoloko sinomnandi?
Kwimbonakaliso eyaziwayo "isiqhamo esinqatshelwe sisoloko sithandeka," kubonakala izimbini ezibalulekileyo. Esi siqhamo esinqatshelwe, oko kukuthi, umntu angakwazi ukunambitha xa efuna. Kule meko, kuyamnandi ngenxa yolu thintelo olufanayo. Mhlawumbi, ukuba kwakungekho nqatshulwa, isiqhamo sasingayi kuba mnandi kwaye asinomdla kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko kuyacaca ukuba akusiyo isidingo se-psychophysiological.
Apha ungabona iphethini ethile, ehambisana nokwaneliseka kwanoma yimiphi imigaqo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukuphulwa kwemithetho yamandulo, umntu uyazi ukuba ngumdali wezinto ezintsha. Nangona engayibumba ngenjongo, izenzo zibonisa oku. Izichazili ziphatha igama elithi "ubugcisa" njengolu vavanyo kunye novavanyo lweempawu zomntu. Kwimixholo yenkolo, igama elithi "isilingo" lithathwa ukuba litshintshwe njengolu "vavanyo", olufunekayo ukuba umntu adlule njengesigaba esithile, ngaloo ndlela ebonisa ukukhula kweempawu zakhe.
Iintlobo ezingavumelekanga kwiBhayibhile
Akukho mntu onjalo ongazi ukuba isiqhamo esinqatshelwe seBhayibhile sisiqhamo esakhula kwiYadini yase-Eden kwaye savalwa nguThixo. Nangona kunjalo, i-snake tempter yayingamkhuthaza uEva ukuba azame. Umtyholi wachaza kumfazi wokuqala ukuba uThixo uyayinqabela isiqhamo esingavumelekanga kunye noAdam kuphela ngenxa yokuba banokuba namandla njengokuba yena, kwaye izityhilelo ezininzi ziya kutyhilwa kuye. Ukuva oku, uEva wathintela uAdam ukuba azame isityalo esinqwenelekayo samanzi - i-apula. Ukuxhatshazwa kokuvalwa, abantu bokuqala baxoshwa nguThixo epharadesi. Ukongeza, bafa baze bahlukana noThixo.
Umthi ngesityalo esinqatshelwe
Ngoku umbuzo wendawo yokufumana isiqhamo esinqatshelwe eBhayibhileni unokwenene, ngenxa yokuba akukho mthi omnye ochazwe kwiTestamente elidala yokwazi okuhle nokubi apho iziqhamo ezinjalo zikhula khona. Ngokutsho kweBhayibhile, lo mthi wawucacile ngenxa yokuba wawutyalwe kunye noMthi woBomi phakathi kweMyezo wase-Eden . Imele ukuqonda, kwaye iyakwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwale mibini inxamnye nokulungileyo nokubi.
Ngubani ohlwaye isiqhamo esinqatshelwe?
Isono sokuqala kunye nesijeziso esiyingozi esaqhubeka ngexesha elide elichazwe yiBhayibhile. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho iingxabano malunga nabokuqala ukungamthobeli uMdali kwaye banambitha isiqhamo esinqatshelwe kakhulu - uAdam okanye uEva. KwiTestamente Endala yeBhayibhile, kwathiwa uAdam wayinambitha isiqhamo esinqatshelwe, nangona uThixo akazange amvumele ukuba enze oku. Omnye unokuthetha ngokuzithemba ukuba ngokwenza njalo, indoda yayingcatsha uMdali wayo. Mhlawumbi loo mntu wayengeke enze into enjalo, ukuba uEva akazange amkhombise ukuba azame into awayevunyelwe ukuba yenzele loo minyaka.