Ixesha lenkwenkwezi liqala nini?
Ngaphambili, ixesha lokuguquka lalibizwa ngokuba "selutsha" kwaye ludlulela kwiminyaka eyi-12 ukuya kwe-17. Elizweni lethu, le mi miselo igcinwe kuze kube namhlanje. Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-12 ukuya kwe-14, oku kusemva kokuqala, kwaye ukususela ngomhla we-15 kuya ku-17, kusekude.
Ngoko ixesha le-adolescence lihlanganisa ixesha lokuphila ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-12 ukuya kwe-17. Kwamanye amazwe, lo kubalo kuyahluka ngokuthe ngqo kwimihlaba, inkolo yabemi kunye nezithethe zabo. Ngokomzekelo, kumazwe asezantsi, iqala kakade kwiminyaka eyi-10, ngelixa kwezinye iphela kuphela kwiminyaka eyi-19.
Inkwenkwe yabantwana abafana
Kwimakhwenkwe, iminyaka yobudala, nangona ihambelana negosa lentombazana, kodwa ubomi boqobo buqala kamva. Phantse kwiminyaka engama-13-15, abameli besigxina sesintu baqala ukutshintsha isigxina sezwi, ukuqala kwebriki ebusweni kubonakala.
Izinwele zikhula kancane emilenzeni, phantsi kweengalo kunye nase-groin, isifuba sikhula ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngexesha lokulala, ukunyuka okungaqhelekanga kwenzeka, okuqhelekileyo.
Ukuphuhliswa komntwana ngethuba eliselula kuyasebenza nje kuphela ngokwenyama, kodwa nangokwengqondo. Okwangoku kukho izilwanyana kunye nabazali abangayiqondi i-maximalism yabantwana . Abantu abadala kufuneka bazame ukufumana amaphupha omnxeba womntwana - izinto zokuzilibazisa, ukuzilibazisa, ukuba abe ngutitshala wakhe kwaye kungengomnye.
Ukukhula kwintombazana
Kwizinto ezikhethileyo zenkwenkwezi, amantombazana angabandakanya inzuzo yesisindo ngenxa yesikhumba se-adipose, esenza iifom zeenxa zonke kunye nesetyhini. Iyenzeka malunga neminyaka eyi-14-16, sele ivele emva kokuya esikhathini (iminyaka eyi-12-13), nangona ibhinqa elizayo liza kuzaliswa ngokupheleleyo kuphela kwiminyaka engama-20 ukuya ku-22.
Ubungozi kunye nobungozi bexesha elivisayo libandakanya umnqweno onamandla wokuqinisekisa, ngokuqhelekileyo kwiindlela ezingamkelekanga. Ngaphantsi kweempembelelo kubahlobo okwangoku, amantombazana aqala ukutshaya, ezama utywala kunye nokulala ngesondo.
Ukuze ugweme iingxaki ezinjalo, kuyimfuneko, phambi kokuqala kokukhula, ukuseka ubudlelwane obuthembayo nentombi. Akuyimfuneko ukuchasa ngokukhawuleza ukubonakaliswa komntu ngamnye omntwana, obonakaliswa ngomnqweno wokwenza itekisi, ukubhoboza okanye ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo kwaye emva kokungenakunqununu, umfana akayi kukhangela ukukhupha.