Ngokukhawuleza ndifuna ukuphawula ukuba inkqubo yentsuku yentsholongwane iyimntu ngokwabo kangangokuthi ayikho nto inokuthembela kuyo nayiphi na i-standard standard standard. Kukho ubulumko basendulo obuthetha ukuba nomntwana oneminyaka engama-6 ufanele uziphathe njengomntu onobubele, enomntwana osemtsha - njengomntu ongaphantsi, kunye nomntu omdala - njengomhlobo. Ukuyithatha ngokoqobo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ayifanelekanga, kodwa kukho inkozo engqiqweni apha. Abantwana abaneminyaka eli-10 ukuya ku-15 baya kukhula ngokunyanisekileyo. Kanye kunye nalokhu, umvukeli ukhula kwintombazana. Umzimba wakhe ungena kwiinguqu zokuqala, kwaye isimo sengqondo sitshintsha. Umntwana wakhiwa njengomntu kunye kunye njengengxenye yoluntu olukhulu. Ngeli xesha kubaluleke kakhulu ukuseka urhulumente womhla womntwana osemtsha kwaye uzame ukuwugcina.
Ingcamango yokuba "ulawulo lwangomhla" alubandakanyi usuku lokukhanya kuphela, kodwa nobusuku, kuba ngeli xesha abatsha banokwenza into ngaphandle kokulala. Ngoko ke, urhulumente ochanekileyo ngosuku lomntu osemtsha kufuneka abe neeyure ezingama-24 zezifundo kuye, ukwenzela ukuba ixesha lobudenge lube lukhulu. Akukho malunga nokujonga iliso leeyure ezingama-24, kodwa kunoko ngokukhusela iimeko ezingadingekile. Ngokomzekelo, ngoMgqibelo kusasa, xa ungadingi ukuya esikolweni, umntwana uyavuka ngeentsuku ezisixhenxe ngaphandle kweengxaki, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo ngoMvulo awuyi kumvusa. Ewe, emva koko, kwakukho ifilimu enomdla kwiTV kamva ebusuku!
Ukwenza izifundo
Wonke umama uyazi ukuba kuthatha ixesha elingakanani intombazana ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo. Omnye umntwana unehora elilodwa, enye ibini. Kodwa ukuba izifundo zikhethwa ngaphezu kweeyure ezintathu ngosuku, kuyafaneleka ukufumanisa isizathu. Kungenzeka ukuba yinto engayiyo inhlangano kunye nokukwazi ukuhlela ixesha lakho. Abazali bafanele bahlengahlengise iinkalo zobomi beentsuku zobutsha, babakhuthaze, umzekelo, ngokuhamba. Ukwazi ukuba unokuhamba ukusa kwi sixhenxe ngokuhlwa, umntwana uya kuzama ukuqhuba izifundo ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa umgangatho uya kuhlolwe ngumama, oya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukunika ixesha lokuhamba kunye nomsebenzi wesikolo.
Ixesha lomntu
Ukudala urhulumente kubantwana nakwishumi elivisayo ngaphandle kokuqwalasela inani elithile lexesha elilodwa alivumelekanga. Umntu ngamnye unomdla, kwaye kufuneka athathe ixesha. Ewe, ukuba i-hobby idibene nexesha lokungcebeleka esitalatweni. Ibhola, i-hockey, iikratshi ezigqityiweyo okanye ukudlala iiklasi ziza kunceda ukuphakamisa umthwalo wesikolo, ukuphazamiseka kwimisebenzi yansuku zonke kwaye kuya kunceda impilo. Kodwa khumbula ukuba ngokuzisa iinkqubo zedemokhrasi kwindlela yokusebenza kunye yokuzonwabisa yentsholongwane, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba unengcamango yakhe, indawo yokuphila kunye neenkolelo. Ubuntwaba lixesha apho iigareyi zokuqala, utywala kunye nokulala ngokwesondo kubonakala ebomini bomntu. Izibhengezo, izigwebo kunye nezithintelo eziqhubekayo azikwazi ukuyicombulula le ngxaki. Into eyona nto kukuxhomekeka. Ukuxelele abazali ngeengxaki zabo, amava, umntwana kufuneka aqiniseke ukuba uya kufumana uncedo, iingcebiso, kwaye akayi kuhlwaywa.
Iphupha
Kule minyaka "ithenda", indlela yokufunda kunye nokuzonwabisa kwintombazana kufuneka ibonelele ubuncinane ubusuku bokulala ubusuku. Kule meko kuphela umntwana uya kufumana ukuphumla okupheleleyo.
Umntwana ongeyintsana, awukwazi ukumenza alele, ngoko kufuneka udale imimiselo ethile ethanda ukuphumla ebusuku. Ukutya isidlo kufuneka kunikwe ngaphandle kweeyure ezingama-2-3 ngaphambi kokulala. Ebusuku, musa ukuvumela umntwana ukuba ahlale phantsi kwikhompyutha okanye kwi-TV. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana unokukhathazeka malunga naye, ungayihoyi, uthethe intliziyo yakhe entliziyweni. Kubonakala nje ukuba "ama-hedgehogs" aneminyaka eli-15 ubudala abonakala bengabantu abadala, kodwa ngokwenene wonke umntu ulindele ukuba uMama angene egumbini lakhe, afune kwaye afune ukuhamba ebusuku.