Umzali kwisibeleko

Oomama abaninzi bokamva ngemibala yonke bacinga ukuba baya kuvelisa njani umntwana emva kokuzalwa kwakhe. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu owaziyo ukuba unokuqalisa imfundo yeziqhekeza esibelethweni, xa esasaza emanzini. Akunzima ukwenza oku ukuba uyayazi imigaqo-siseko.

Yintoni ekhulisayo umntwana?

Nangona kumama omama, umntu omncinci usenokuba nako ukuziva ukuchukumisa isisu esiswini, lonke uluhlu lwawo amava kunye nokuzicoca kwilizwe lezandi ezijikeleze umfazi okhulelweyo. Yileyo ke isiseko sohlobo kunye nesimo sengqondo somntwana wakho. Ngoko ke, njengoko kuchazwe kwincwadi ethi André Bertin, "Imfundo kwisibeleko sikamama," kuxhomekeke kuwe okuya kuba yintoni ilungu elitsha lentsapho yakho.

Khawucinge ngezinto onokuyenza ngunyana okanye intombi yakho ngethuba lokukhulelwa:

1. Zama ukuzungeze ngeemvakalelo ezintle. Oomama abanomdla baxhamla ukuguquka kwemizwelo kwaye bahlala behlulwa yi-toxicosis, kodwa bahamba ixesha elide emoyeni omtsha, ukuphumla rhoqo, ukuphulaphula umculo wokuhlaziya umculo, ukufunda iifoto zabaculi abadumileyo kunye neentlobo ezintle zendalo ziya kunceda ukuphucula umntanakho onobugcisa obuhle ngaphambi kokuba azalwe.
2. Impembelelo emangalisayo ekukhulisweni komntwana esibelethweni somama unxulumano olufudumele noluthembayo phakathi kwabazali bexesha elizayo, xa umyeni enakekela umfazi okhulelweyo kwaye uzalisekisa ngokuzithoba zonke iinqwelo zakhe. Thetha nomntwana ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukubetha isisu sakho: Iimvakalelo ezichukumisayo zomntwana zibalulekile.
3. I-puzozhitel yakho ifanele ibe yinto enqwenelekayo, ngoko cingisisa ngaso sonke ixesha ngothando, inceba kunye nemizwa elula: ngoko ukukhuliswa kwengane esibelethweni kuya kunika iziqhamo eziphawulekayo. Umntwana uza kuzalwa ezolile, olinganiselayo kwaye uya kuhlala eziva ethanda.