Abaninzi abafazi abakhulelweyo bahlala bexhala malunga nombuzo: "Zingaphi iinyanga ezibonakalayo isisu?" Okanye "Iveki ivelaphi isisu?" Oku akumangalisi, kuba wonke umntu ufuna ukwazi oko ukulungiselela. Omnye unomtshato kwimpumlo, kwaye kufuneka ukwazi ukuba yintoni isitawu sokuthenga ingubo, kwaye umntu ufuna ukugqiba ixesha kunye nendlela yokuxelela umninimzi malunga nesimo sabo esithakazelisayo. Omnye usenokuba sele ecwangcisa i-wardrobe yasehlobo okanye ebusika, kodwa akazi ukuba yintoni esiza kuba sisisu ngaloo xesha. Izizathu, njengoko sibona, zininzi. Kodwa impendulo engacatshanganga, zingaphi iiveki ukubonakala kwesisu, hayi, hayi.
Kodwa ukungahambelani ngexesha lokubonakala kwalo akukokuhle. Ngokuqhelekileyo isisu sivela kwiiveki ezi-14-16. Kuyenzeka, kunjalo, kwaye ke, oko sele sele kwiveki yesi-7 yokukhulelwa, umfazi akayithandi iimpahla zakhe ezizithandayo. Kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi, kubangelwa ukukhula kwesisu, kodwa ngokunyuka okungabalulekanga kumzimba womzimba okhulelweyo.
Kwakhona kukho iimeko xa kufika kwiiveki ezingama-20 zokukhulelwa kungekho zibonakaliso zangaphandle (oko kukuthi, isisu), okwenza ukuba owesifazane okhulelweyo ahluthe. Emva koko, ndifuna kwaye indawo yokuthutha ingaphantsi, kwaye loo nto yenzekile, kwaye ndiziva ngathi ndikhulelwe ekupheleni! Kodwa ukubonakala kwexesha lesantya kweesisu kuluhlobo lwesimo esiqhelekileyo, kwaye ungakhathazeki. Kwaye kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba ixesha apho isisu sibonakala singathinteli ubungakanani bokugqibela besisu. Oko kukuthi, kunokubonakala kwiiveki ezili-12, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kuya kuba mkhulu kakhulu kumashumi amane.
Ukongezelela, oogqirha abaninzi batusa ukuba ukususela kwithuba apho isisu sithoma ukubonakala, gqoka i-bandage. Kodwa asinakuyincoma ukuba uyiphathe ngokubanzi. Akunabo bonke abafazi abakhulelweyo abanobungqina bokugqoka i-bandage.
Yintoni echaphazela ukukhula kwesisu?
Ngeyiphi inyanga ibonakala isisu, ezi zinto zichaphazela:
- Umgaqo-siseko womfazi ngaphambi kokuqala kokukhulelwa. Kwaye akunakutsholwa ukuba ngowona mfazi usondele ekuzaleni, ngaphambili umva wakhe uyabonakala. Kunoko, nangona kunjalo! Emva kwakho konke, kwiiveki zokuqala umntwana usengumncinci, kwaye ukukhula kancinane kwesibeleko kubonakala kungabonakali kwabanye. Kodwa ukuba ibhinqa elincinci kakhulu, ngoko kuya kuvela utshintsho oluncinane kumzimba wakhe.
- Ubukhulu bomntwana. Nantsi umgaqo ulula kwaye uyaqondakala, xa umntwana ekhula, ngakumbi isibeleko saba, kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, isisu. Kwaye kwafikelela kwiiveki ezingama-15 ukuya kwe-18 umntwana ukhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye utshintsho kwisigxina sesisu asinakuqhathaniswa neveki edlulileyo. Kwaye emva kolu xesha, unakho phantse yonke imihla ukugubha ukuba ukhulile njani.
- Akukho nxaxheba encinci idlalwe yinani le-amniotic fluid. Ukuba bebancinci ngaphezu kwesiqhelo, ke ixesha apho abesetyhini abathandayo bebonakala bengaphantsi. Yaye ukuba ingaphantsi kwesi siqhelo, isisu, ngokulandelanayo, siya kubonakala kamva. Ukuphambuka kwimali yamanzi ngokukhulelwa okuncinci kuyinto evamile kwaye akufanele kubangele ukukhathazeka. Inyani kukuba umlinganiselo wamanzi kunye nophuhliso lomntwana unokuba lube phambili phambi komnye, kodwa phakathi kokukhulelwa konke kufuneka kulungiswe.
Ngoku ngoku, xa uyazi ukuba ixesha limele likulindeleke ukuba kubonakale kwimizimba yesisu kunye noko kukuchaphazela ubungakanani bayo, akukho nto iya kukuthintela ukuba izicwangciso zakho zizaliseke.