Umntu onenkohliso - ibhenal, kubonakala ngathi, imeko, kodwa zingaphi iinto ezinqabileyo emva kwayo, iinyembezi, intukuthelo kunye nokudumala. Abanye abesifazana emva kokuphazamiseka okunjalo ixesha elide abanakukwazi ukuza kwiintliziyo zabo baze baqonde ukuba benzani ngokulandelayo. Iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo ekungcatshweni kwendoda yakhe kuya kubanceda baqonde ngokukhawuleza imeko kwaye benze isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Iingcebiso zeengqondo malunga nendlela yokujamelana nokungcatsha komyeni wakhe
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukugqiba ukuba ngaba umntu ofunekayo okanye akunjalo, kuba ezinye izenzo ziya kuxhomekeka kule nto. Abanye abafazi, ngokuqhelekileyo abo bahlala nomyeni wabo ngaphezu kweminyaka elishumi kwaye baqonda ngakumbi njengomhlobo, bakhethe ukungaboni izinto ezicacileyo kwaye ningenzi nto. Kodwa abo abaye baqhekeza umkhonto we-right-to-right to "left" "emva" kunye "emva", ukukhawuleza, abangazi, ukumxolela nokuyeka, okanye ukulwa nokulondoloza ubudlelwane kuze kube sekupheleni.
Iingcebiso zengqondo ngeendlela zokuxolela umyeni emva kokungcatsha kuya kuba ukuqonda ukuba umkhankaso oshiyekileyo ophilileyo awuzange uphishekele injongo yokushiya intsapho: wayefuna kuphela ukuvalelwa kwesondo olutsha. Ewe, akukho nto, kodwa ukuba akafuni ukuhamba kwaye azigxeke ngenxa yobuthathaka bakhe, unokuxolelwa aze athathe amanyathelo okukhusela iimeko ezinjalo. Iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo malunga nendlela yokuphendula ekungcatshweni kwendoda yakhe kuya kubandakanya ukumnika ukhetho. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba umntu ubuyele kwintsapho . Kodwa ukuba wenza ihlazo, wenqabela ukubona abantwana kwaye ufike kumbambano "uhlalutyo lweenqwelo zeenqwelo", kwiimeko ezininzi zikhokelela ekubeni le ndoda ishiya kakuhle, kuba unamandla ngakumbi ukuzama ukumbopha, ngakumbi uya kufuna inkululeko.
Ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo malunga nendlela yokuphila emva kokungcatsha kwendoda yakhe iya kuba neendlela zokwandisa ukuzithemba kwayo. Kufuneka ukuba uzithande, uchithe ixesha elingakumbi kuwe, ungahlali ubomi bomlingani wakho kwaye uya kuwuxabisa umphefumlo wakhe okanye udibane nomnye umntu endleleni eyafuna nje umfazi onelungelo.