Njengomthetho, emva kwenyanga enye imeko iqhelekileyo, kwaye i-karapuz sele iqalile ukungena kunye nomama kwaye ayikwazi ukulala ixesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, oku akusoloko kunjalo. Ukuze ungakhathazeki malunga nezihlunu, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba umntwana oza kuzalwa ufuna ukulala njani ngenyanga, nokuba ingaba udibane nodokotela xa ubude bokuba ubuthongo bakhe buhluke kwiimpawu eziqhelekileyo.
Ukulala komntwana ngenyanga 1
Umzimba wonke umntwana osanda kuzalwa, njengomntu omdala, ngumntu ngamnye. Nangona into yokuba yonke intsana ilala kwaye idle, iimfuno zabo zahluke, yintoni na ixesha lokulala okufunekayo kwimpilo eqhelekileyo nophuhliso olupheleleyo lungahluka.
Phendula ngokucacileyo umbuzo weendlela eziliqela umntwana oza kuzalwa elala ngayo ngenyanga 1, akunakwenzeka. Kukho idatha yeefomatikhi eziqhelekileyo ezamkelekileyo kwizibonakaliso eziqhelekileyo. Njengomthetho, iintsana ezinyangeni zilala malunga nama-18 iiyure ngosuku, nangona kunjalo, eli xabiso lingahluka malunga neeyure ezingama-2, zombini ukuya phezulu nangaphezulu.
Ubungakanani bokulala ubusuku buxhomekeke kwindawo apho umntwana elele khona kwaye kukuphi uhlobo lokutya. Kwiimeko ezininzi, oomama, abondla iintsana zabo ngamabele, balala nabo kunye. Kwimeko enjalo, umntwana ulala ebusuku ukusuka kwiiyure eziyi-8 ukuya kweyesi-9, kodwa ngelo xesha unako ukuvuka amaxesha angama-8 ebusuku ukuba adle. Abanye oomama abancinci bayaqaphela ukuba unyana okanye intombi yabo ebusuku isetyenziselwa isifuba rhoqo, kwaye yingakho abafuni ukulala kunye.
Ukuba umntwana usesondlo sokufakelwa, ubude bobusuku bakhe ubuthongo, njengomthetho, aludluli iiyure ezingama-6-7. Ngeli xesha, kuya kufuneka ukuba uphakamise amaxesha amabini okanye ama-3 ukulungiselela ibhotile yebhokhwe ngomxube.
Ukulala kwamalanga emntwaneni oneminyaka emininzi kubhelelwe ngamaxesha angama-4-5, ubude bexesha obuya kuhluka ukusuka kwiiyure eziyi-7 ukuya kwi-10. Kule meko, ulawulo lomhla kwiimvumba ezinjalo zakhiwe ngokwahlukileyo. Ezinye iintsana zilala imihla ngemihla malunga nexesha elifanayo kwaye zivuke malunga neemeko ezifanayo, ngelixa ezinye ziphendulwa ngokupheleleyo.
Kule nqanaba, kufuneka uhlawule ingqalelo kwixesha ngalinye lokulala, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, ukuba umntwana angalali kangangeenyanga e-1. Ungamvumeli umntwana wakho ahlale ephapheme ngaphezu kweyure, kuba kusekho nzima kunjalo. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho akalala ixesha elide, zama ukumbeka embhedeni ngokukhawuleza, ngenxa yokuba ukuba uya kufikelela, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu.
Ungacingi ukuba ukuziphatha kunye nomlingani womntwana wakho kufuneka uhambelane neminye imithetho nemimiselo.
Ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emibini engabonakali nayiphi na imiqondiso yokuxhalabisa, uyadla kakuhle, unokufumana ubushushu obunokulungelelanisa umzimba kunye nesihlalo esiqhelekileyo, kwaye uqala ukubonisa ngokukhawuleza inzala kubantu abadala kunye nezifundo ezizungezile-akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo. Ukuba umntwana usoloko ekhalaza kwaye, ngokuqhelekileyo, kukukhathaza ngempilo yakho, kha wuleza udibane nodokotela.