Iintsana kufuneka zondliwe ngobisi lobisi?

Abamama abaselula banemibuzo malunga nokuba kaninzi umntu ufuna ukondla umntwana osandul 'ubele nobisi lwebele. Ubisi lwebele lubumbelwa esiswini somntwana ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ke, emva kweeyure eziyi-1,5-2, umntwana unokufuna isabelo esitsha.

Kufuneka kaninzi ukondla umntwana osanda kuzalwa?

Ngokuqhelekileyo kucatshangelwa ukuba ukondla abantwana ukususela kuma-8 ukuya kuma-12 ngamaxesha ngosuku. Nangona kunjalo, eli xabiso lingahluka, zombini enkulu nakwincinane. Kuphela emva kwexesha (iiveki ezi-2-3) nawuphi na urhulumente uya kulungiswa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ixesha eliphakathi kokuncedisa li-2-3 iiyure.

Uyazi njani ukuba umntwana usweleka ubisi obaneleyo?

Oomama abaninzi bahlala becinga malunga nokuba kudla kangakanani ukunyusa umntwana osandul 'ubele nobisi lwebele. Musa ukuhlala uyazi ukuba ugcwele okanye cha. Ezi zilandelayo zibonakalisa ukuba umntwana ulambile:

• ukubonakala kokuxhalaba, ukuqonda, ukulila;
• ukutsala ingqalelo kamama kunye nezandi zokubetha;
• I-baby dummy ecetywayo ayitshintshi imeko.

Ngexesha leveki zokuqala zobomi, umntwana ubonisa iimpawu zokulamba kungekho rhoqo. Ngoko ke, umda phakathi kweemfuno unokuguquka phakathi kweeyure ezingama-2-6. Ngako oko, uninzi unina uncelisayo, uhambelana nexesha elide leeyure ezingama-3.

Njengoko umntwana ekhula kwaye ekhula, umntwana uyadlula kwiinqanaba eziliqela ezahlukileyo kumsebenzi. Ngoko ke, phakathi kweentsuku ezingama-7-10 zobomi kukho ukukhula okukhulu, okuhambelana nokunyuka kwesondlo kwintsana. Oku kubonwa kwakhona kwiiveki ezi-4-6, iiveki ezili-12, kunye neenyanga ezintandathu. Umzimba kamama unomdla ngokukhawuleza kulezi zinguqulelo. Ngako ke, unina oononophala amaninzi ubona isabelo esikhulu sobisi ngeli xesha.

Ngaloo ndlela, ngamnye umama kufuneka azi ukuba kaninzi kunokwenzeka ukondla umntwana osandul 'ubele nobisi lwebele ukwenzela ukuphepha ukugqithisa.