Phantse elowo umntu wade wathi ebomini bakhe, "Ibhinqa liqhuba njengesilwanyana kunye ne-grenade," kwaye likhumbula "ingqiqo yabesifazane". Abasetyhini bayakhubekiswa, kuba oku akuyiyo inyaniso, kodwa yinto nje isenzo sabantu kunye nokuhleka kwehla. "I-sex weak" ilawulwa ngemoto ayikho ngaphezu kokuqineka, kodwa kusekho iimeko ezininzi ezinika ilungelo lokuza kunye namahlaya ahlukeneyo.
Yobume bendalo
Ngokwemvelo, indoda kunye nomfazi bahluke, okuchaphazela ngqo indlela yokuqhuba:
- Ukwahlula kokuqala kukubona. Eli bhinqa libhetele phambili ekuphuhlisweni kombono wembambano, ubamba yonke imiba kunye neenkcukacha ezincinane, apho amadoda angayithobeli ingqalelo kuwo onke. Kwamanye amabhinqa, umbono wesiphelo ufikelela kumadireji angama-180. Ngenxa yoko, ibhinqa elisesigodini linokuphazamiseka ngazo zonke izinto ezincinci azibonayo kumacala. "Isondo esomeleleyo" sinemibono ephuculweyo yombono, oko kukuthi, bavavanya oko bakubona ngaphambili. Ukuze ufunde oku, umfazi kufuneka adlule ixesha elithile, umkhonto omncinane kwaye yonke into iya kuvela.
- Abasetyhini abakwazi ukuziqhelanisa kakuhle kwindawo, ebonakalayo ngexesha lokupaka.
- Abasetyhini, ngokuthelekisana namadoda, abaziqhelanga kakuhle ngokusemnyama, ngenxa yoko abakwazi ukwahlula ukuba yiyiphi inqwelomoya imoto ehambayo ihamba ngokuhlwa.
- Kubonakala ukuba isigqibo sentombazana sincipha ngakumbi kunamadoda ngenxa yokuba oku kudla ukuwela engozini. Kwakhona kunzima ukuba oomama bacinge ngeendlela ezichanekileyo.
- Xa ibhinqa liva uxinzelelo oluxinzelelekileyo , lingawela "kwi-stupor", ngenxa yale nto, kwaye kwakukho inkolelo yokuba ngengozi ibhinqa liphosa isondo kwaye livala amehlo akhe.
Ukulingana
Bonke abasetyhini bafuna ukubonwa emva kwesondo njengabantu. Kodwa isiqingatha esomeleleyo sabantu asifuni ukunyamezela oku, kuba ibhinqa lingamele liphathe nantoni na ebomini, kungekhona imoto eqhelekileyo. Oku kuchaphazela abafazi ngokwabo, njengoko basebenziselwa ukulawulwa kwaye ngoko kufuneka basebenzise inxaxheba entsha.
Umntu
Umbono ongalungileyo wabantu unempembelelo enamandla ngokwaneleyo kuwo wonke umfazi ohlala emva kwesondo lomoto. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukufunda indlela yokusebenzisa umatshini ngokwakho, ke unqabe uncedo lomntu oya kuhlala kunye naye kwaye ahlale ebonisa ukuba wenzeni.
Ukuba unethuba lokuthenga imoto yakho, kwaye ungamceli kumyeni wakho, yenze njalo, kuba kubo imoto ibingcingo abangafuni ukwabelana ngayo.
Kufuneka uqonde ukuba endleleni uya kudibana nabantu abangayi kuvuya. Ngaphandle kwezinto ezincinci kunye nokungathandabuzeki, uya kuziva ukungavumelani neempawu zemoto kunye namazwana "abathobekileyo-abaqhubi". Izenzo ezinjalo zandisa ukwanda kwengcinezelo eyenziwa yintombi evili.
Ibhinqa elisemva kwevili
Naphezu kwayo yonke into, imihla ngemihla nabaninzi abafazi-abaqhubi bavela kwiindlela. Ngokuxhomekeka kwisimo sengqondo, ingqondo kunye nexesha lokuqhuba, ukuhlelwa kwezi zilandelayo:
- I-"nnail" iqhuba ubuncinane ngaphaya kwenyanga. La mabhinqa aqhubela imoto ngokucophelela nangokucokisekileyo,
ziphuza kwaye zichanekile. - "I-Caterpillar" inamava okuqhuba ukuya kwiinyanga ezintandathu. Abafazi abanjalo baqhubela phambili ngokugqithiseleyo, kuba bazijonga njengabaqeqeshi. Akakhathaleli ngemibono yabanye, into ephambili kukuba ukhululekile.
- "I-Wasp" yinto yokuqhuba ukuqhuba unyaka. Abafazi abanjalo baphatha kakubi kwaye kaninzi bengenakukwazi, ngenxa yabo kwindlela zenzeke iimeko ezixakekayo.
- "Inyosi" ihluke kwi "I-Wars" ngokuzola kwayo. Abafazi abanjalo baqhubi kakuhle, bayazigcina zonke iimigaqo, baqhube ngokuzithobayo nangokuziphendulela.