Omnye uphukisiwe ukuhlala kwindawo yokusebenzela, umntu-ukufunda incwadi, kunye nomntu-ukuze aphile. I-Boredom ibonakalisa ngezindlela ezahlukeneyo, yaye ngamnye kuthi wadibana naye ngaphezu kweyodwa ebomini bethu, kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu okwazi ukufumana amayeza asebenzayo kuye.
Iingcali zengqondo ziqaphele ukuba izizathu zokubonakalisa le mvakalelo enemibala engalunganga zibangelwa ukungabikho komdla kwizinto umntu azinikele kuzo. Ngamanye amagama, kubonakala ngexesha xa ungeke unqume oko ufuna ukuzenza kulo mzuzu.
Ukubonakaliswa kwimeko yokudabuka okanye ukuxhalaba
Lo mkhwenkwe uhlala ukhona, kwaye iingcambu zawo zenziwa ebuntwaneni, xa abazali bengakhathaleli ngomntwana wabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo bahamba bebodwa kunye nabo, ngaphandle kokubambisa nayiphi na into enomdla, bengabonakali ebomini babo, ngelixa belibale ukunceda umntwana azibonele.
Indlela yokukhupha isisindo?
Kukho enye indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu: zizithathele into enomdla kuwe. Khetha kwizinto ezifumanekayo okanye ufike ngentshiseko, ishishini elinokukukhuthaza, ukuphefumlela, uzalise ubomi bakho ngenjongo, yongeza intsebenzo yempembelelo kwimihla ngemihla. Kodwa into ephambili kwindlela yokukhunjulwa yinkalo yokwakha. Fumana into ongayibonisa ngayo ubuchule bakho, fumana ubunamandla bokudala, apho kukho imfuneko yokuhamba ngokuthe tye. Ukuphuhlisa, fumana izinto ezintsha zobuntu bakho.
Kodwa indlela yokujongana nexhalaba, ukuba kungekhona kwimeko? Ngaloo ndlela itshintshe isimo sakho sengqondo. Khangela ngaphesheya kwimeko yakho. Ngaba le nto ingaba ukwaneliseka ngokuqhelekileyo ebomini? Ukuba awufuni ukwenza nantoni na, cinga ukhetho oluhle lokuphumla. Umntu uye waqhelana nayo yonke imzuzu ukuba asebenze into ethile, ukusuka kulo kwaye ukwesaba, ukuba yedwa kunye neengcamango zakhe, ukudibana naye.