Unyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana ufana nekhosi yomfana omtsha, emva koko umama osemncinci ufumana isihloko sesitifiketi somsebenzi kwintsimi yakhe. Emva koko, umama ngelungelo unokubhekwa njengowona unzima kakhulu kwaye unoxanduva, kwaye ngokubalulekileyo, ujikeleze umsebenzi wewashi ngaphandle kweeholide kunye neentsuku. Kwaye ukusinda unyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana kufana nexesha lovavanyo, elowo wonke umntu uya kufuneka aphume ngaphandle. Eli lixesha lobusuku bokulala kunye namava, ukungabikho nkqonkqozi zezinyembezi zokuphelelwa yithemba kunye novuyo, iimvakalelo eziqaqambileyo nothando olungenamkhawulo olunomntwana lwakho.
Ngaphandle kokungabaza, unyaka wokuqala wobomi emva kokuzalwa kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana ngokwakhe. Ngokwenene, kwiinyanga ezili-12 isiqalo esingenakukhuseleka nesinokungenakunceda senza inqwaba enkulu ekukhuleni nasekuphuculeni, ukukholisa umama kunye noyise ngokuphumelela kwabo kokuqala.
Ziziphi iingxaki ezilindele abazali ngonyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana?
Ngokukhawuleza emva kokubeleka, umama kunye nosana baya kusetshenziselwa ukuhlala kulawulo oluhluke ngokupheleleyo: zonke izitho kunye neenkqubo zomntwana zakhiwa kwakhona kwaye ziphuculwe; kwindlela yobomi bowesifazane ohambelana ngokupheleleyo nomntwana wakhe. Ukususela kweli nqanaba, umsebenzi wabazali ukubonelela umntwana ngeemeko ezintle kakhulu zokukhula nophuhliso. Ukuze ufunde indlela yokuphendula ngokukhawuleza kwiimfuno kunye namathuba omntwana wakho, unyaka wokuqala wobomi kufuneka uqikelele iimpawu zomntu ngamnye, kunye nezikhokelo zamkelekileyo kunye nemigangatho.
Ngoko, ngokubanzi malunga nophuhliso lomntwana ngeenyanga ukuya kunyaka.
Inyanga yokuqala
Eli xesha lingabizwa ngokuba ngumbuyiselo kwaye kunzima kakhulu. Njengomthetho, umntwana ozelekileyo kwaye onempilo uyazalwa ngokubonakalisa ukucinga okungenakunqunyulwa, ngokubhekiselele kwiziphi izigqibo ezithatyathwa malunga nomntwana wengqondo kunye nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo nangokwengqondo.
Inyanga 2-3
Inyanga yesibini nowesithathu kunyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana wakho yithuba lokukhula okukhulayo kunye nophuhliso, apho uthando lomzali kunye nokunyamekela kuthatha inxaxheba ngqo. Ingane ifunda ukuhlukanisa iimvakalelo, gcina intloko, ukuphatha iimbambo kunye nemilenze ngokukhawuleza. Ekupheleni kwenyanga yesithathu, ixesha lokuvuka liya kuma-1-1.5 iiyure, ukwanda kwenyanga ku malunga ne-800 grams. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bajamelana neengxaki ezinjalo zintsana njenge-colic. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela nokunceda umntwana ngexesha.
Inyanga 4-5
Iintsana ezininzi sele zizama ukuhlala, zihamba ngesisu, ziqhube, zihlale kwimilenze kunye nenkxaso. Bazibambe ngokuzithemba iintloko zabo, balandela ngokulandelelana isihloko, babambe. Kule nqanaba, abazali kufuneka bahlawule ngokukodwa ukuphuhliswa komzimba wengane yabo: ukwenza i-massage kunye nokuzivocavoca, ukuguqula kwisisu nokunye.
6 inyanga
Ingxenye yendlela sele isele ivele, umntwana usukhulile kwaye wafumana ubunzima. Kwiinyanga ezintandathu, isingeniso esisebenzayo sesondlo esongezelelweyo siqala, ukuqhuma kwamazinyo okuqala. Ingane inomdla ngakumbi kwaye iyimfono.
Inyanga 7-8
I-Grudnik yavelisa iimeko ezitsha zokulala, ihlala ngokuzithemba kwaye iqala ukuzama ukufikelela kuzo zonke ezine kunye nokuhamba. Abazali abalumkileyo ngeli xesha bafihla ukufikelela kuzo zonke izinto ezincinci kunye ezibukhali, izityiki kunye neetafile zecala lokulala zivaliwe ngundoqo ukwenzela ukuba omncinci angafaki umyalelo wakhe apho. Enyanisweni, ngeli thuba umama wamnyusa ngokukrakra iingxakeko zakhe: imihla ngemihla kubalulekile ukulungiselela izitya ezisebenzayo kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zomntwana, ukujonga ukuhlambuluka kwamathoyizi kunye nezesondo, kwaye ushiye ukungahambi ngokungaqiniseki.
Inyanga 9-10
Iintsana ezininzi kwinyanga yesithoba yesibini ziqala ukwenza amanyathelo abo okuqala,
Inyanga 11-12
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana sele behamba ngoku ngeli xesha, abanye bahlala nabo. Ukutya kukuhluke kakhulu, isichazamazwi sinegama lokuqala kunye neelwimi, kwaye umntwana usasazeka kumdlalo.
Unyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana yithuba elibaluleke kakhulu, kuba sele esele engqondweni yakhe, umkhwa, imbonakalo yehlabathi, isimo sengqondo kwizihlobo. Ngoko ke, abazali kufuneka banike abantwana babo ixesha elingangoko kunokwenzeka, behlala bemnika uthando lwabo nothando.