Umntwana onentlonelo-oku akusixilongo, kodwa umpawu womntwana onesifo sengqondo-ngokomzwelo njengengxaki ye-neurosis. Ingabonakalisa ngokukrakra, ukuchukumisa, ukuguquka kwemizwelo, ukungondleki, ubuthongo obuthathaka, ukunyamekela ingqalelo. Kubantwana abancinci, uxhalaba lunokuhamba kunye nokutya okugwenxa kokutya, oku kudla ngokubonakaliswa ngokutsha. Kwiminyaka eyi-1-4 iminyaka yokubonakaliswa kwe-neurosis kubantwana ingabonakaliswa ekukhethweni intshukumo, kwi-onanism yobuntwana, ekutshweni kwemihlaba, njl.
Ukuze ulungelelanise isimo sengqondo somntwana, kubalulekile ukuqeda imbangela yokuziphatha okunjalo.
Iimbangela zokudumala kwabantwana
Abanye abantwana sele bezalwe "bexhalabele", ngoko oogqirha bakhuluma nge-brain disease. Oku kwenzeka ukuba omnye wabazali baneempawu ezifanayo ebusaneni. Iintsana zinesistim esilumkileyo esenza ukuba izalise uphuhliso lwayo lwangundoqo ngonyaka. Kwimizekelo yamatyala, "ukuvuthwa" kwenzeka ngaphandle koncedo oluvela ngaphandle, ngokwalo. Nangona kunjalo, kwezinye iimeko, ngokukodwa kwiimeko zokukhulelwa okunzima (ukusulelwa, i-gestosis, imikhwa emibi kamama), ukuphuhliswa kwezakhiwo zobuchopho kunye nokuqhutyelwa kwentsholongwane kunokunyanzelwa yingozi eyabangelwa kwinkqubo yengxaki yomntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kule meko, kukho umngcipheko wezifo zentsholongwane kubantwana kunye nokubeka esweni rhoqo kufunwa kwi-neurologist ne-psychiatrist.
Ukuba umntwana okhulayo ngokukhawuleza waba nexhala, ngoko ke, mhlawumbi, sithetha ngophuhliso lwe-neurosis ngesiseko seengxaki zokugula okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo (ukwesaba, uxinzelelo, ukungquzulana).
Ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa emntwaneni
Abantwana banokuhlaselwa kwiimeko xa ukuxhatshazwa kwamanzi kuqhutyelwa ixesha elide, kwaye ukufihla emva kokwesaba umntwana ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo (umzekelo, ukuba umntwana ubonile ukungquzulana ezininzi kwiinkalo zabazali). Ngaloo nto, ukuphazamiseka kwengxaki yomntwana kunokwenzeka ngokusabela ngokukhawuleza kwimeko yesimo sengqondo esiphuthumayo (kungekhona ukungahambi kakuhle kwezinto ezilindelekileyo kunye nokufa komntu othandekayo, ukuxothwa ngokugqithiseleyo kwisifubeni, ukushiya engozini, njl.).
Ngaphandle, ukuphazamiseka kweentlungu kuboniswa yi-hysterical sobs, ukunyaniseka komntwana, iimfuno zokukwenza njengoko enqwenelayo. Njani kwimeko yokuphazamiseka ukuzolalisa umntwana onentloni? Ngokuqhelekileyo, indlela yokutshintsha ingqalelo ibangelwa (simema ngokungalindelekanga umntwana ukuba akhangele incwadi enomdla, bhala ingqalelo kwizinto ezenzeka kwifestile "Khangela, yintoni imoto eya", njl.). Ngelo xesha, kubalulekile ukuba abazali ngokwabo bahlale bezolile kwaye benesihe.
Indlela yokuphatha umntwana onentloni?
Xa unyango lwenkqubo yeentlanzi kubantwana, iivithamini ze-B zivame ukumiselwa, njengoko ziqhelanisa imisebenzi eyenziwa yi-nervous and contributors to improving the conduction of nerve. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukubuyiselwa kwengqondo kwengqondo kumntwana kubangelwa ukudala umoya okhuselekayo wengqondo kwintsapho. Xa unyango lomntwana wesaba, kuxhomekeka kwiimeko kwintsapho, ubudlelwane phakathi kwamalungu ayo. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bangawusebenzisi kakubi umntwana wabo, ukuba bangazilayithanga izifundo zabo, kodwa baphumle. Kubalulekile ukugcina udibana nomntwana.
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntwana unentlonelo, kwaye ukungaphumeleli kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza? Ngokuqhelekileyo kule meko, oogqirha bacebisa ukuxhasa inkqubo yesantya ngeziyobisi zengqondo (njenge-phenibut). Baya kunceda ukususa uxhaphalo lwentlungu ngexesha elibi.