Iingcamango kwimiphumo yesikhathi esizayo yokukhulelwa, ukufumana ubunzima, ukunyusa ukutya, ekugqibeleni, malunga nempilo yomntwana, kuthathwa ngasemva, kuba into ephambili ebakhathazayo yintombi ebesemsebenzini kunye nexesha elizayo loba usapho usondo lomntwana. Kubonakala ngathi, ziziphi iingxaki-zenza i-ultrasound kwaye ziqinisekile ukungapheli. Kodwa, okokuqala, i-ultrasound ayiniki ipesenti yeqinisekiso, kwaye ukungathandabuzeki, ngokuchasene nobuchule obubugcisa, kuyaqhubeka nokuhlushwa abazali abazayo, kwaye okwesibini, kukho ukukhulelwa ngethuba apho oogqirha abacebisi i-ultrasound ngezizathu zokuphepha. Ukongezelela, kukho izibini ezithintela ukuxilongwa kwe-ultrasound kumgaqo, njengokungathi ziyazibonakalisa zona kunye nehlabathi ukuba azikhathalele ukuba bathande bani.
Siyathemba ukuba xa ukuzalwa kwakho kumangalisa, uya kuyithanda, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ulwabelana ngesondo, kwaye uyakhohlwa malunga nokukhetha kwezesondo. Kodwa ngelixa uhlushwa, sifuna ukukunceda, ukuchonga ngemiqondiso yenkwenkwe oyilindeleyo, okanye intombazana.
Izikhokelo zangaphandle
Masiqale ngesisu. Ngethuba lokukhulelwa, isimo sesisu sisenokubonisa inkwenkwe okanye intombazana. Ukuba unzima emagqabini, kwaye unqeni isalula - lindela intombazana, ukuba emva kwakho ukukhulelwa kwakho akubonakali, isisu sisisigxina kuphela - uya kuba nenkwenkwe.
Ukubonakala kowesifazane okhulelweyo uye waba ngumqondiso omkhulu wokuzalwa kwenkwenkwe okanye intombazana. Ngokuphathelele intombazana iya kuthetha ukungonakaliswa kwangaphandle - amabala e-pigmented, i-pallor, izixhobo eziphazamisayo. Bathi intombazana ibetha ubuhle kunina. Kwinkwenkwe intokazi echasene nayo iya kuba yinto enhle, iibhulophu, kunye neentsilelo ezazithuthunyiswa ekuqaleni zalala. Isici senkwenkwe yenkwenkwe yinkomo ephosiweyo.
Isisu sishukumisa njani?
Ngokweempawu ezidumile malunga nokuzalwa kwenkwenkwana okanye intombazana, baya kuxela umntwana ukuba athande. Ukuba umntwana uhlasela indawo yesibindi - thengela umqhubi wesigqilakazi, ukuba ukubetha kwehla kwezantsi, kwiindawo zesibhanca - uya kuba nenkwenkwe.
Ukongezelela, isisu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, inkwenkwe yenkwenkwe ngokufanelekileyo, intombazana - ishiyekileyo.
Ukukhulelwa kunye nesondo
Ukongezelela, umzuzu wokukhulelwa komntwana uya kuxelela ngentsimi yomntwana. Ukuzalwa kwenkwenkwe okanye intombazana inokumiselwa ngokugqithisa - ukuba umntwana ukhulelwa emini ye-ovulation, linda le nkwenkwe ukuba iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuvuthwa - kuya kuba nentombazana.
Kwakhona malunga nentsimi ithi "amandla angamadoda" kabawo - ukuba loo ntokazi ibona elele embhedeni, kuya kuba nentombazana ukuba le ndoda yinkwenkwana.
Amanqaku ngobawo
Kuya kubonakala, yintoni isimo sengqondo kwimpawu ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye nenkcazo yenkwenkwana okanye intombazana inomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, akusikho ubulumko bendoda ethetha apha, kodwa manani! Ngokwezibalo, amadoda angama-bald anamaxesha angama-1.5 amathuba okuba babe ooyise bemakhwenkwe kunamadoda anesityalo kwiintloko.
Ukongezelela, ukuba umntu uhlambela nomfazi okhulelweyo, linda unyana. Kwakhona kukho uphawu lokuchazwa ngokwesini ngokwezambatho zikayise: ukuba umntu ukhetha iingubo zangaphantsi, uya kuba nenkwenkwe. Ukuba inkululeko - intombazana.
Umntu ngexesha lokukhulelwa
Enyanisweni, ukuziphatha ngexesha lokukhulelwa kuxhomekeke kakhulu kwimvelo, imo, imfundo yabasetyhini. Kodwa, ekubeni ababelekazi bezimisele ngokuziphatha komama ekuzalweni, akukho nto inokuthintela ukuba senze okufanayo.
Ngoko, isimo sengqondo esibi, ukuqonda kukuthetha ngentombi yexesha elizayo, imeko efanelekileyo yezempilo kunye nokukhulelwa okulula-malunga nendodana. Ukuba ibhinqa ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa lifihla isikhundla sayo - liya kuba nentombi, ukuba i-tummy egcweleyo ibonise, kuya kuba nekomfana.
Kwaye ukucaphukisa ebusweni bobantu abaninzi bhekisela kwakhona ngentombi.
Izikhetho zokugcoba
Kukho uphawu olunjalo lokuba abo bafazi, abathi ngexesha lokukhulelwa badla umgubo ocolileyo, balindele amantombazana. Yaye ukuba ukukhulelwa kwenza ukuba utywala "unxilisayo" - wathandana nosawoti, utshaya, ucocekile, ungakhathazeki kwi-roach kunye ne-marmalade (kunye nangaphandle kwe-marmalade), ulinde omnye umntu endlwini.
Ukongeza, abo balinde abafana banesifo esinetyhefu kunotyhefu, kodwa ngelo xesha, isondlo sinokuphakama. Le ngxelo eqinisekisiweyo, kuba ngokwenyama, kunzima ukuba ibhinqa lithwale inkwenkwana.