Inani elikhulu labantu liloyiko xa bebona indoda ebhokisini ephupheni. Iphupha elinjalo lenza imibutho eyahlukileyo kunye namava. Ukuze kukhishwe ukungathandabuzeki okukhoyo, kubalulekile ukuchaza ngokucacileyo isalathisi esibonwayo, ingqalelo zonke iinkcukacha.
Yintoni indoda ephuphayo ngebhokisi?
Iphupha elinjalo lihlala lithatha ngokwayo ulwazi olungathandekiyo kunye neendlela zokuba kungekudala kuya kuba neengxaki kwishishini, ngoko kungcono ukulahla. Enye inketho, ephupha indoda efile ebhokisini - isimo sengqondo somphuphi siza kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukucela uncedo ukuvala abantu. Kukhona iphupha elinjalo kunye nokuchazwa kakuhle, ngoko kubantu abancinci nabangashadile, ngumngqongqo wothando. Kwiibini ezithe zahlala kunye ixesha elide, icebo elinjalo liqikelela umtshato wokuqala. Ukuzibona ebhokisini kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kuba neengxaki zempilo. Siza kufumanisa ukuba umntu olahlekileyo uphupha njani ebhokisini, okuthi umhlobo luphawu lokuba ufuna uncedo kwimpilo yakhe yemihla ngemihla. Ukuba umfo ulele ebhokisini, kufuneka ulindele iingxaki endleleni yakho. Iphupha, apho kukho abantu abaningana ebhokisini, uthembisa abantu abatsha. Ukuba umntu ophilayo ufile kwaye ebhokisini ephupheni - oku kukuphawu oluhle, oku kuthetha ukuba umntu uya kuhlala ubomi obude. Iphupha, apho ndifanele ndikhwele khona ebhokisini kwaye ndilele kuyo, limela ukulangazelela. Ukuba ibhokisi lefikile livaliwe, umphuphi uyazama ukulibala into efana nobomi obuqhelekileyo.
Yintoni ibhokisi eliphuphayo malunga nomntu ophilayo?
Ukuba umntu ebhokisini uya ebomini aze aqale ukunyuka kuwo, ngokukhawuleza umphuphi uya kufumana umrhumo omtsha wamandla, oya kwenza ukuba kube lula ukwenza izinto ezintsha. Ukuthetha ngento yokuba amaphupha omntu ophilileyo ebhokisini, okanye kunokuba ngumhlobo-yi-harbinger yeendaba, eziza kuchaphazela ubomi boqobo.