Kwisihlandlo sangaphambili, abantu babecinga ukuba kukho na utshintsho emzimbeni wabo, njengombonakalo wokuthi ezinye izenzakalo ezibalulekileyo ebomini ziya kwenzeka. Konke oku kwaba sisiseko sokuvela kweenkolelo ezahlukeneyo. Kuya kuba lunomdla ukwazi ukuba yintoni umlomo ongaphantsi womfana kunye nentombazana ibhala. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukubetha emlonyeni kuyisimboli sokubamba okanye kufuneka uxabane nomntu. Sekunjalo kungabakho i-harbinger yokufumana isipho esidliwayo okanye kufuneka kukhuthaze ingxoxo enzulu kunye nomthandayo.
Ngokukhawuleza kuthethwa ukuba izibonakaliso zithathwa ngokungavumelekanga ukuba ukubetha kubangelwa ukungabikho komzimba, isifo, umzekelo, i-herpes, okanye izinto ezingekho phantsi kokusingqongileyo.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa umlomo wakho ophantsi uhlutha?
Ukubamba kule ngxenye yomzimba i-harbinger yedliwayo yomsindo okanye kuyimfuneko ukulinda iindwendwe ezisuka kude. Ezi zintlobo zenguqulelo zidibaniswe nelokuba imilomo iyilungu eliphambili elithatha inxaxheba ekufumaneni ukutya, kwaye yilokho abakwenzayo etafileni.
Kukho olunye uhlobo oluthile lokuchazwa kwe-omen, malunga nokuba kutheni umlomo ophantsi utyatywe, ngoko ukutshintshisa kufanekisela ukubonakala kweentlebo kunye neengxabano ezahlukahlukeneyo. Inkolelo-zithi ithi ukuba kukho naziphi na izivumelwano, mhlawumbi ziyakucasula. Ukongezelela, ukubetha kubonisa ukuba kukho abantu abasondeleyo kuthi bahamba emva kweengcinga, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba balinde kwaye bangavumelani namalungiselelo. Xa umlomo utyhonywa kubantu abancinci, umntu ufanele alindele iingxaki kwibudlelwane. Ukusuka ekuchazeni okungahambi kakuhle kweempawu malunga noko kuthotywa phantsi komlomo ophantsi, kubalulekile ukukhankanya ukuba ukubetha kuqikelela ukuba kuthatha inxaxheba kwi-brawl ekufuneka umntu abe nayo emlonyeni. Kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele isicaphulo esingenanto, apho umntu oza kuqala akhuphe, kwaye ngoko, uyazisola ngezinto ezenziwe.
Kukho ukuchazwa okulungileyo kwesibonakaliso malunga nento engaphantsi komlomo, ngenxa yoko kunokuba ngumlenze wokubamba ngobungane. Unokumanga umntwana.