Unokwazi njani ukuba umntwana uyamoyika?
Ukuhlanganiswa kwezi zimpawu ezilandelayo, kubonakala kuninzi, kuya kubonisa ukuba umntwana wakho unesabiso:
- ubuthongo obubi obungenakuphumla ebusuku, umntwana udla ngokukhala;
- kunciphisa ukutya;
- ukungabikho komchamo, ikakhulukazi ebusuku;
- ixesha elide kwaye lingavumi ukukhala ngenxa yezizathu;
- inkunzi ayimvumeli ukuhamba nonina isinyathelo esinye;
- ukwesaba kobumnyama.
Ikoyiko ayiyona ingxaki engenakubungozi, njengoko kubonakala ngathi. Umoya wokuxhalaba rhoqo uvimbela umntwana ukuba akwazi ukuthetha kunye nokuba ngumhlobo kunye noontanga bakhe, kwaye uyonakalisa nokuphuhliswa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Xa kungabikho unyango olufike ngexesha, ukwesaba kubantwana ngokukhawuleza kuya kuba yimizimba engapheliyo kwaye kubonakalisa kakhulu umgangatho wobomi bamuva. Emva koko, siya kukuxelela indlela yokuphatha ukwesaba komntwana ngeqanda kunye neengqungquthela zeqanda.
Ukuphatha ukwesaba kubantwana ngoqhinga
Ngokutsho kweenkolelo ezidumileyo, indlela enhle yokukrazula umntwana wefuthe elibi loloyiko luyelenqe. Okokuqala kufuneka udlulise iglasi lokubanda kwamanzi angcwele kwiglasi, uyinqamle, uze uthe amagama alandelayo:
I-Duma ityebile, iya emoyeni kunye nomkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomntwana), kunye nemilenze yakhe, kunye ne-lobster encinci, enekhanda le-shawl enobudlova. Ukusuka kuwo wonke umzimba, uye emoyeni, uye kumoya ngonaphakade (kunye negama lomntwana) kwaye ungabuyi. Amen. Amen. Amen.
Emva koko, amanzi ayingcwele kufuneka athukuthelwe kwiqondo eliqhelekileyo lomzimba womntu - ama-36.6 degrees - kwaye uyisule ngomzimba womntwana. Kwezinye iimeko, umntwana unikezelwa ukusela la manzi.
Le ntlanganiso ingaqhutyelwa kuphela kubantwana ababhaptiziweyo.
Ukuphatha ukwesaba kubantwana abaneqanda
Enye indlela ephumelelayo yokumkhupha umntwana usenokwesaba ukukhupha iqanda. Kulo mzekelo, kufuneka uthabathe iqanda lekhukhu kwaye ubeke umntwana esihlalweni phambi kwe icon, uqhubelele emzimbeni wakhe. Kucingelwa ukuba iqanda lithatha yonke into engeyiyo. Ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo kufuneka ihlawulwe entloko-malunga nayo kufuneka ibanjwe ubuncinane amaxesha amathathu.
Ngexesha lokuphuma, unokufunda umthandazo okanye ngamazwi akho ucele kuThixo uncedo. Emva komthendeleko, iqanda kufuneka lithathwe ngaphandle kwendlu ngokukhawuleza.