Ukuthetha malunga nendlela yokufunda ukucinga ngokufanelekileyo, kubalulekile ukwenza ukugcinwa okubalulekileyo. Oku akukwazi ukufunda ngokukhawuleza. Cinga ngokwakho, umntu ixesha elide lihlala libi, kwaye indlela yakhe yokucinga yaba ngumkhwa wakhe, kwaye indlela yokuziphatha, njengoko uyaziyo, ukuphelisa akulula. Umsebenzi ukubuyisela umkhwa omubi ngento encedo.
Ukuzibeka ngokwaseminye imisebenzi, iindwendwe zifumana izizathu ezininzi, "kodwa" kwaye "ukuba", ezingenakuthemba ukuzithemba kwaye azikho nto zikhokelela ekuphumeleleni . Abantu abanjalo banako ukufumana ngendlela engummangaliso "ubuninzi beentlanga" kwaye bahlale benesisitoreli sokubangela ukuxeka xa kwenzeka. Iimpawu eziphambili zichasene ngqo.
Indlela yokucinga ngokuqinisekileyo?
Okokuqala, kufuneka ufunde "ukubamba" iingcamango ezimbi ezivela, ngamanye amaxesha, ngokuzibandakanya. Ucinga ingqolowa esiyihlwayelayo, ngoko umgangatho wengqolowa uya kuxhomekeka kwisivuno. Ingcamango embi ingatshintshwa yinto entle, zama ukungazisebenzisi kwiingcamango zakho nangokwentetho inqabana yokunyaniseka "kungekhona."
Kufuneka ucinge ngokuqinisekileyo, ukhumbule ukuba ukuba omnye umnyango ngaphambi kokuba uvale, uvula ezinye izinto. Mhlawumbi into engazange isebenze namhlanje yinto enkulu kunye nangomso into ebaluleke kakhulu kulindeleke.
Ukunxibelelana nabantu abaneempumelelo kunye nabahle. Ukulahleka, ukusuleleka njengentsholongwane, ukuphepha abantu, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuphefumlelwa nokuhlawula amandla. Abantu abaphumelelayo banokuthi babe ngabathandle bobubomi obuhle, ngokubonisa umzekelo wabo ukuba ukucinga okulungileyo kunokutshabalalisa iindonga ezingenakunceda.