Kuza kubekho, akukho ndlela echanekileyo, inzululwazi ebonakalisiweyo evumela ukuba kubekho umphumo we-100%. Nangona kunjalo, enye yezona ndlela zidumileyo kwaye zithandwayo yikhalenda yokuzalwa komntwana waseTshayina.
Ikhalenda yokukhulelwa lingaphezulu kweminyaka eyikhulu ubudala kwaye izigidi zabantu baseTshayina zizisebenzisa ekucwangciseni intsapho. Ekuqaleni, ikhalenda yokukhulelwa yayisetyenziselwa kwintsapho yaseKhayina yokwandisa i-genus. Ngokwesiko e-China, ubulili bomntwana ozayo bebaluleka kakhulu. Ngoko ke, ikhalenda yokukhulelwa ayizange ilahlekelwe yimpumelelo yayo.
Ziziphi iingenelo zekhalenda yokuzalwa komntwana waseTshayina?
- ukukhululeka kokusetyenziswa;
- ivumela ukucacisa ngesondo somntwana kunini na ixesha lokukhulelwa;
- ukuba kungenzeka ukulungiselela kwangaphambili isondo sexesha elizayo;
- AmaShayina athi ukuphumelela kwendlela kufikelela kuma-98%.
Ikhalenda yokuthabatha isiTshayina linikezwa ngolu hlobo lwetafile.
Iphezulu kwitheyibhile ngokukhawuleza ibonisa iinyanga (ukusuka ku-1 ukuya ku-12). Kwaye inxalenye ekhohlo yetafile ecaleni kwimiba iqulethe idatha ngexesha lomama (ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwe-45).
AmaShayina akholelwa ukuba ubulili bomntwana buxhomekeke kuphela kumama. Ngoko ke, ukuze ukwazi ngesondo lomntwana ongakazalwa, kwanele ukuba nedatha malunga nobudala bomama kunye nenyanga yokukhulelwa komntwana.
Indlela yokubala ngesondo sekusasa ngokutsho kwekhalenda yokukhulelwa kweTshayina?
- Kwikholam ekhohlo yetafile sikhetha iminyaka yomama ozayo.
- Kwinqanaba leenyanga sichaza inyanga yokukhulelwa komntwana. Kubalulekile ukuba kukho ukuchaneka okuphezulu.
- Kwintlanganiso siyifumana isondo somntwana ozayo (D-intombazana, M-mfana).
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unomama ozayo uneminyaka engama-21, kwaye ukukhulelwa komntwana kwenzeka ngoJuni, ngoko ngokwekhalenda yeChina yokukhulelwa, intombazana kulindeleke ukuba izalwe.
Indlela yokucwangcisa ngesondo lomntwana kwangaphambili?
Ikhalenda lokuzalwa komntwana waseTshayina likuvumela ukuba uceba isondo lomntwana ongakazalwa. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ufumane unyaka wokuzalwa komama ozayo kwaye ukhethe inyanga efanelekileyo kakhulu yokukhulelwa, ehambelana nesondo esifanelekileyo somntwana. Ukuba iinyanga ezizayo zesini esifanelekileyo azihambisani - ungahambisa inyanga yokukhulelwa kwikholam efunekayo.
Masithi umama ozayo uneminyaka engama-20 ubudala. Ukuze uzalise inkwenkwe, ukukhulelwa kwekhalenda yeTshayina kufanele kwenzeke ukususela ngo-Ephreli ukuya kuSeptemba.
Yintoni okufanele ndiyicinge xa ndikhulelwa ngesondo somntwana ngokwekhalenda yeTshayina?
Ukunciphisa ubunzima bephutha, kungcono ukucwangcisa ukukhulelwa kwiinyanga ezizayo kufutshane nelo xesha. Kubalulekile ukukhusela ukucwangciswa kokucwangciswa kwinqanaba lokutshintsha kwamaxesha.
Kubalulekile ukulungisa ngokucophelela imihla ehambelana nomntwana ozayo. Emva koko, ukuba abazali abazayo abazi umhla wokuzalwa komntwana - ukukhetha ukuba isondo somntwana siya kuba yingxaki. Nokuba impazamo yeentsuku ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-3 inganika iziphumo ezichasene ngokupheleleyo.
Ubungeniso bokufumana umphumo wenyaniso uphakamileyo. Kodwa kunjalo, ayisoloko ihambelana.
Ukucwangcisa ubulili bomntwana ngumsebenzi onomdla. Ikhalenda yeTshayina yokukhulelwa komntwana yenye yezona ndlela zithandwa kakhulu, ezivumela ukuzimisela nokucwangcisa ngesondo sekusasa lomntwana. Isetyenziswe ngamakhulu eminyaka kwaye inabancedisi abaninzi. Nangona kunjalo, amathuba okungafihli.
Kodwa nawuphi na ozalwa naye unyana okanye intombi, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana abe nempilo kwaye ubomi bakhe buvuyiswe.