Ininzi ivela kwiimithandazo zamakhati ezinxulumene neempawu ezithile zokuziphatha kwezilwanyana ezifuywayo. Ngaloo nto ikati ikhuphukela ebhokisini, ngamanye amaxesha siyavutha. Kodwa ngaba unokuziphatha oku okulungileyo? Kungakhathaliseki ukuba senza njani ukuzama ukubenza bazuze ngokumisela ukuqonda kwethu kwehlabathi elijikelezile, baya kuhlala bephulaphule imvelo. Zonke iimpendulo kufuneka zifunwe kwimeko yekati. Nangona iikati zihluke kwiintsapho zazo zasendle (ama-tigers okanye iingonyama) ngokulingana kwazo, ngokwenene, ziyizilwanyana. Ngamaxesha onke kufuneka uzikhusele kwizinkukhu, iintaka zemihlobiso, intlanzi okanye ihagu. Kwaye kwindlu okanye kwindlu, ikati ngokuqinisekileyo iya kukhetha indawo efihliweyo apho uya kuziva ekhuselekileyo. Kwi-Intanethi, kukho iifoto kunye namavidiyo amaninzi, ngaphandle kwezilwanyana ezifuywayo kuphela, kodwa neekati ezinkulu zasendle ziya kwiibhokisi ezahlukeneyo. Yenzani le ntsapho enomlilo apha?
Uthande iikati zeebhokisi
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni iikati ezifana neebhokisi zekhadibhodi:
- Mhlawumbi esinye sezizathu zokuba izilwanyana zakho zikhetha ukufihla kwiikhabhinethi, iincwadi zeencwadi okanye iibhokisi zamaphepha i-flavour. Iikhathi zihlala zikhethile emthini, kwaye iphepha okanye i-chipboard igcina ivumba elifanayo. Ikati, ehleli ebhokisini, njengokungathi ubuyela ehlathini lasendle, ukulibala ixesha elithile malunga neendawo ezikhoyo ezikhoyo.
- Ikati inyukela ebhokisini ngumkhwa, owathi wangena kuye ukususela ebuntwaneni. Emva koko, kukunye nabo badibanisa neenyanga zokuqala zokuphila. Apho oomama babeletha, bondla ubisi babo, baxoka. Kufana nendlu yokuqala ekhunjulwayo ngobomi.
- Nangona ifulethi okanye indlu yelizwe kwaye ibe yintsapho yakho yezilwanyana, kodwa uya kuhlala ebheka kuye kuphela indawo apho iya kuba yinto ekhululekile ngakumbi kuninzi. Kulapho uziva ekhuselekile kwaye engahlawulelwa kuzo zonke. Yingakho iikati zifana nokunyuka kwiintlobo zeebhokisi ezinokuthi zibe kwiindawo ezifihliweyo kwaye ezingabonakaliyo.
- Ikati ijikela ebhokisini kwakhona kuba ifuna indawo yakhe. Emva kwakho konke, unesihlalo esithandayo okanye i-sofa, ngoko kutheni kungenjalo? Unokunceda ikati ukuxhobisa indawo yalo ukwenza kube lula ngakumbi. Beka ezinye zeepayipi ezithandayo kakhulu apho i-tomboy ephosakeleyo ithanda ukuyidlala, ingcezu yendwangu elithambileyo ukuze le ndawo ibe yinto eyaziwayo kwaye ijwayele kuyo. Ngoko udale umhlaba omncinci, apho ikati ingavala khona ixesha elivela kuwo wonke umntu kwaye uphumule.
- Masikhumbule ukuba bonke abameli bentsapho yekati bayizilwanyana. Izilwanyana ezinjalo ziziphatha njani zasendle? Bahlala behamba ngokuzingela ukuze banike intsapho ukutya. Kukho imfuneko ukulungelelanisa ukuhlambalaza, apho kulungele ukulinda umdlalo. Kuba izilwanyana akusekho mfuneko, kodwa izilwanyana ziyaqhubeka zichaphazela ukuziphatha. Ikati ikhuphukela ebhokisini ukufihla apho, kwaye ukusuka ekugxileni kwayo, ayiyikubukela i-masters yakho kunye nezilwanyana.
- Ukuba ibhokisi ibonakala kuphela kwigumbi, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kutsala ikati ngokwayo. Oku kubangelwa ukuba izidalwa ezinobungakanani ezinjengokufunda indawo entsha, zama wena. Ngendlela, into enjalo iba yikhwama enkulu okanye ibhokisi. Into ephambili kukuba unokungena kuphela apho.
Kwenzeka ukuba ibhokisi leyo incinci kakhulu kwilwanyana ekhulile, cishe ayifanelekanga kuyo, kodwa iyaqhubeka ikhwele inkani. Mlethe indlu ekhadibhodi encinci, uya kubona indlela eya kukukholisa ngayo ikati lakho. Unokwakha isakhiwo esincinci esincinci kumacandelo amaninzi, wenze izimbobo ezininzi kubo kwaye uzixhuma kunye.