Ukubeleka kubaluleke kakhulu ebomini kwanoma yimuphi umfazi. Kwaye ngexesha elinjalo, iingcebiso zeengcali ezinamava kwintsimi yezintlu zokubeleka kunye nezobantwana aziyi kubaphazamisa oomama bokamva. Kule nqaku, siya kuzama ukunika iingcebiso eziyimfuneko kunye eziyimfuneko kubo bobabini abakhulelweyo kunye nabayeni babo, kwaye banike imizekelo yeentloneko eziqhelekileyo malunga nesimo esithandayo sowesifazane.
Iingcebiso kubasetyhini abakhulelweyo kwizigaba zokuqala
Kwindawo esingaphakathi yowesifazane osemncinci, isidalwa esitsha sibonakala kwaye sikhula, kunye nommandla osondeleyo akusiyo imfuneko nje ukucinga, kodwa ukutshintsha zonke izicwangciso nokuvuselela ubomi babo. Kodwa akusiwo onke amabhinqa ayamkela ngolu hlobo utshintsho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oomama baya kuphazamiseka imibuzo enje: "Yintoni eya kwenzeka kumsebenzi wam okanye ukufundisisa? Ukukhulelwa kuza kuqhubeka njani? Ngaba ubomi bam buza kukhula njani? Ngaba ndiya kuba ngumama olungileyo? Ngaba siya kuba nakho ukubonelela umntwana wethu ngekamva elifanelekileyo nelifanelekileyo?".
Imibuzo enjalo inokubangela ukukhungatheka nokukhathala, ngamanye amaxesha ukungabikho kwengqiqo-mvakalelo kunokuba yintoni ebangela i-toxicosis yokuqala okanye isongelo lokukhubazeka. Iingcebiso zengqondo kwiimali ezikhulelweyo kwiimeko ezinjalo ziya kunceda ukuba ziphume kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo zengqondo kwaye zingavumeli ukuba zikhule zibe yingqondo okanye ukudandatheka. Awukwazi ukuzama ukusombulula ngokupheleleyo zonke iingxaki ngexesha elilodwa. Zama ukugxotha isigqibo sabo ngonaphakade. Ingaba isabelo seengonyama kuzo zonke iingxaki kunye nokungahambelani kuya kuxazululwa ngokwazo ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba.
Ngokuqhelekileyo umfazi okhulelwe engalindelekanga yena kunye nabo bonke abantu abazungezile bayakwazi ukuxhalabisa, ukukhuseleka ngokomzwelo kunye nokunyamekela kumava amancinci. Abafundi beengqondo, banike iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso kubasetyhini abakhulelweyo kwizigaba zokuqala, ugxininisa ukuba ukunyuka nokugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo kuyisiganeko esibonakalisiweyo kubamama abalindele ukuba kubalulekile ukuba bafunde indlela yokuphumla kwinkqubo yakho yeentlanzi.
Iingcebiso kubafazi abakhulelweyo
Enye yeendlela ezilula ukuphumla kukuphulaphula umculo ozolalisa kwindawo ekhululekile kwaye ugxininise ekuphefumuleni kwakho. Ngenxa yoko, kuya kufuneka ufune ukuphefumula ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye uhambe ngokukhawuleza. Hlaziya kwaye uzame ukucinga ukuba emva kokuphuma komfutho uvule ngoxolo nobabalo. Ku luncedo ukuchitha iiseshoni zokuphumla kunye neqabane lakho. Iiseshoni ezidibeneyo ziya kunceda amadoda awakhulelweyo abesetyhini baqonde kakuhle kwaye bazive bafazi babo.
Yaye yintoni icebiso onokunika amadoda akhulelwe?
Enyanisweni, yonke into ilula kakhulu! Nika ingqalelo ngakumbi kubafazi bakho, bathande, bazalise i-whims yabo encinane. Emva koko, kunye nabo ngelo xesha akukho nto engaqondakaliyo kubo, batshintsha ngokwabo, kwaye konke okufunekayo kukuqwalasela nokuqonda.
Kukho amaxesha apho zonke iingcebiso ezivelele kubahlobo abanolwazi okanye iingcali malunga nesidingo soxolo kunye nokulinganisela kwangaphakathi kululibala ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ukwesaba kwangaphakathi kuza phezulu. Ikhunjulwe iiglasi zewayini okanye zibethe iipilisi, ngexesha elingaziwa ngalo ngokuvela kwintsapho entsha. Intloko yowesifazane igcwele iingcamango malunga neendawo eziphilayo ezidolophini zasemadolobheni kunye nefuthe le-irradiation evela kubahloli. Izingozi zijikelezwe ngamacala onke! Uncedo kunye neengcebiso zengqondo yeengqondo kubasetyhini abakhulelweyo kwizigaba zokuqala ziya kunceda ukuqonda ukuba akudingeki ukwandisa amanqanaba omngcipheko kwaye ungagqithwa ngamava angenangqiqo.