Ubomi bomama omncinci buzele uxhalabo kunye nexhala-into entsha kuye, yonke into inxulumene neemvakalelo ezingadingekile kwaye ibangela isiphepho sengqondo. Ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwinyanga yokuqala yokuphila komntwana kwaye umama uqala ukuxhalabisa-xa abantwana beqala ukuhamba, njani ukufundisa umntwana lo bugcisa?
Umzuzu osalindelwe ixesha elide
Xa umntwana eqala ukuya ku-agukat - ityala liyimntu. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana baqala ukuthetha kunye nehlabathi langaphandle ngoncedo lwe-agukaniya nje ngenyanga yesibini yobomi. Ngethuba lexesha lokuthetha kwabo, kuvela izandi zengqungquthela zomlomo, abantu abadala abazibeka njenge-agukanie.
Okokuqala, inkunzi isebenzisa isakhono esitsha sokuthetha naye, kwaye isondela kwizakhono ezifunyenweyo zokuxoxisana kunye nezinto zokuba novelwano - abazali kunye nemidlalo eyithandayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo inkwenkwe ngale ndlela ibulela kumculo ayithandayo.
Indlela yokuthetha umntwana?
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba akhule? Akukho zicalulo ezikhethekileyo kule nto, nje kufuneka udibanise naye kangangoko kunokwenzeka, zama ukuhamba kunye namagama nawaphi na amanyathelo, yonke into eyenziwa ngayo kunye nosana. Musa ukulibala ukuba abantwana banomdla kakhulu kwaye bakopisha ngempumelelo intetho yentetho yabantu abadala. Yabelana nomntwana wakho uvuyo, ungaba uvila ukuthetha naye xa efuna. Nika ingqalelo efanelekileyo kwizandla zentsana - zineengongoma ezinxulumene ngokubanzi kunye neziko lokuthetha kwingqondo yomntwana. Ngokubakhuthaza ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zemidlalo yomnwe, ukubetha, ukuvakalelwa kwintshukumo entsha, uphinde uhlakulele intetho yomntwana ngexesha elinye.
Ngokuqhelekileyo imbangela yokuxhalaba kukuba yiphumelele kwaye ngexesha liqala, umntwana ngenxa yezizathu ezithile emva kwexesha alihambanga. Ungakhathazeki, mhlawumbi, isisombululo kukuba yithuba lokuba umntwana wakho afunde izakhono ezintsha-ukumemeza, ukukrazula nokuhleka. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana uza kulezi zakhono kwiinyanga ezi-4-5, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba kufike ixesha elithile uyathula.
Ukuba umntwana uyathula konke, oko kukuthi, i-agukat isiphelile, kwaye izandi ezintsha kwiintetho zakhe azibonakali, ke ubeke ingqalelo kwimeko engqongileyo. Mhlawumbi, ngale ndlela, umntwana unxininiswe malunga naluphi na utshintsho. Okanye isizathu sokuba akunjalo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, bonke abantwana ngabanye kwaye uphuhliso luyenzeka kuwo onke amaxabiso ahlukeneyo. Kodwa ukuba inkunzi yenkomo ayifuni ukuba i-agukat, qha ga mshelana nodokotela wezingane. Mhlawumbi ukungafuni ukuthetha naye kubangelwa nayiphi na ingxaki ye-neurological.