Abantwana banamhlanje

Akungabazeki ukuba abantwana banamhlanje bahluke kakhulu kubantwana abaneminyaka eyi-20 nangama-50 edlulileyo. Isizathu esona sizathu kukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba abantwana banamhlanje bayakhula kwintsimi yeenkcukacha ezahlukeneyo, kwimashumi kunye namakhulu amaxesha. Bathi, njengeponji, bayifumene ulwazi oluluninzi lwehlabathi namhlanje. Akumangalisi ukuba abantwana bethu bafani nathi.

Abantwana banamhlanje - bangubani?

1. Ukufuna ukuhlolwa okuqhubekayo nokuqhubekayo . Ngokuqinisekileyo unyoko wakuxelele into enjengale: "Xa uneminyaka emi-2 ubudala, ndikwazi ukuhlalisa ngenyameko ukusuka kumgangatho we-5 ukuba ndiphose inkunkuma, ndikushiye ekhaya. Ngunyana wakho, le nombolo ayiyi kusebenza - unokuhlala kwimaminithi emi-2 ngaphandle kwendlu. " Enyanisweni, abantwana banamhlanje, kwanabancinane kakhulu, banomdla ngokungaqhelekanga, benze ngokukhawuleza kwaye batshintshe ingqalelo. Konke oku kuvumela ukuba bathwale intlungu kunye nokutshatyalaliswa kwinqanaba elidlulayo. Kwaye ukuba sinawe, xa sasisenkulisa abantwana, abazali bethu bangathatha kalula ihafu yeetayiti zeeyure malunga neyure, kwaye, ngokomzekelo, unokufumana isidlo sokuthula, ngoko ke, ukuba ngabazali, simele sidibene ngqo nomntwana. Kungenjalo, akunakukuphepheka - ukuphazamiseka kwepropathi yendlu, kunye nokulimala kakhulu nakweminye imiphumo emibi. Emva koko, jonga ukuba abantwana banamhlanje badlala ngani, nangona bancinci: kungekhona kwiikhabhi nakwiipiramidi, kodwa kwiifowuni kunye neentlanzi - zifuna into ethile ehamba ngaphaya kwezinto eziqhelekileyo zamathoyizi. Kwaye inkqubela yezobugcisa minyaka yonke inikezela "amatsha" amatsha kunye ntsha.
2. Ukufuna ukunakwa , iingcamango zabo, kunye nokuxhasa imibono yabo. Oomama, umzekelo, ekuhambeni, basoloko besinika thina, abantwana, ngokwabo, kwaye besenokufunda iphephandaba okanye intetho phakathi kwabo. Ngoku kunqabile ukubona umfanekiso onjalo. Umntwana wanamhlanje uya kuqhubela phambili ekutsaleni umkhonto womama wakhe, ayeke ukuthetha nomhlobo, ukuba athethe incoko kwaye enze konke okusemandleni ukutsala ingqalelo aze afumane. Kwaye ukuba awuphenduleli kule "konsathi", ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba yinto ehlambalazayo, kwaye mhlawumbi, intlungu engumntwana.
3. Bayazi . Abantwana banamhlanje banesidingo esikhulu solwazi, kodwa banokukwazi ukuqonda nokuyiqhuba kakuhle. Kodwa bakhetha ukufunda, okwenyaniso, ulwazi abanomdla kakhulu kubo. Kwaye ithelevishini kunye ne-intanethi, njengoko sithe satsho, sinikezela nayiphi na inkcazelo ngexabiso elingenamkhawulo. Asikwazi ukunciphisa into yokuba intanethi idlala indima enkulu ekukhulisweni komntwana wamanje. Kodwa ekufikeleleni kwabantwana kwi-network yonxibelelwano kukho ezinye iingozi: ukufumaneka kolwazi olusongela ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yengqondo (ubukhohlakali, imifanekiso engamanyala, njl.); ukubunjwa kwe-intanethi; Isimo sengqondo esingenangqondo ekufundeni (ngenxa yokukhuphela iifayili ezigqityiweyo, njl.).

Iingxaki zabantwana kwintlalo yanamhlanje

1. Ukwandisa ukwanda kwabazali, ukungabikho kwengqwalasela, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, i-hyperope. Bonke abazali bafumana iindlela zabo zokujongana neengxaki zentlalo yanamhlanje: amanye amama ukuba afumane ikhefu lokubeleka ngethuba lokuqala kwaye anike abantwana abancinci kwiindawo zokulala; abanye, bezama ngokukhuselekileyo ngokusemandleni ukukhusela umntwana kwiinkalo zobomi obesabisayo, ngokunjalo, njengoko bathi, "badla" umntwana wabo. Bobabini bazisa ukungalingani kwintsebenziswano yabazali nabantwana.
2. Ingxaki yentlalo. Ngelixesha xa abantu bexhulumana kunye nabanye kwinxalenye yefowuni nakwi-intanethi, kunzima nakakhulu ukuba abantwana bavumelane nokuqhagamshelana noontanga. Ukongezelela, iingxaki zokujonga abantwana kunye naluphi na okhethekileyo (zombini kunye nomqondiso osisigxina kunye nesibonakaliso esongezelelweyo) ziyancipha: ziphiwe, zikhubazekile, njl.
3. Ufikelelo olungapheliyo kolwazi, olukhankanywe ngasentla, alinayo impembelelo engcono ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo yomntwana obuthathaka.
4. Ukugcinwa kwamalungelo omntwana kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje liba yingxaki eyabonwa ngabantwana ngokwabo: balwela amalungelo abo, amaziko oluncedo lwasemthethweni kubantwana abalwa, njl njl.

Siye sichaza apha kuphela iimpawu kunye neengxaki zabantwana banamhlanje. Kodwa oku kwaneleyo ukuqonda: akunakwenzeka ukusebenzisa iindlela kunye neendlela eziyiminyaka eyi-20, 30, 40 ne-50 edlulileyo ekukhulisweni komntwana wamanje. Isizukulwana ngasinye esitsha sihlukile, kwaye ngamnye umntwana uhlukile. Ngoko isitshixo ekuphumeleleni kwabazali iya kuba yindlela yokuziphatha, ukujonga kakuhle umntwana kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo.