Indlela yokunciphisa uyise womntwana wamalungelo omzali?

Umnqweno womama wokunciphisa ubaba wakhe wemvelo wamalungelo omzali unokuvela ngezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Okwangoku, umthetho waseRashiya ne-Ukraine unika uluhlu olunzulu lweendawo apho inkqubo enjalo ivumelekile. Kule nqaku siza kukuxelela phantsi kweemeko zini, ngokubhekiselele kumthetho okhoyo wamabini amabini, unokuncisha ubaba wamalungelo omzali womntwana kunye nendlela yokwenza ngayo.

Indlela yokunciphisa uyise weelungelo lomzali eRashiya nase-Ukraine?

Okokuqala kunye nokugqithiseleyo, kufuneka kuphawulwe ukuba kumazwe omabini, ukungabikho kwamalungelo omzali omnye wabazali bomntwana omncinci kwenziwa kuphela ngokuthintana nomzali wesibini, umtshutshisi okanye abaphathi bamagqwetha abaphethe isigwebo enkundleni.

Kwaye oku, kufuneka kubekho iimeko eziphosakeleyo, ngokukodwa:

• Ukhuselo olunobungozi bobawo bezinto eziphilayo ekusebenzeni loo mi sebenzi malunga nendodana okanye intombi yakhe, enikwa ngumthetho wangoku;
• ukuxhaswa kwabantwana abangakhokhelwa ixesha elide kwiimeko apho abazali baqhawule khona kwaye umntwana uhlala kunye nonina ngesiseko sesigqibo senkundla;
• ukuxhaphazwa kwamalungelo omzali njengomzali, ngezinye iimeko kunokuthintela kakubi uluntu jikelele kunye nempilo yengane;
• ukula ukungafuni ukuthabatha unyana okanye intombi yakhe esibhedlele, kunye naliphi na iziko labantwana, inhlangano yezokwelapha njalonjalo;
• ukuphunyezwa kobundlobongela kumntwana, kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, unyango olunzima ngaye, ukukhanyela ukuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini kwinkwenkwe okanye intombazana;
• ukusetyenziswa kakubi kokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi okanye iziyobisi;
• ikhomishini yenzelwe nayiphi na ulwaphulo-mthetho olubhekiselele kubomi kunye nempilo yengane yakhe, kunye nomzali wakhe wesibili, kulo mzekelo - unina.

Ukongeza, ngokwemithetho yaseUkraine, esinye sezizathu ezinokubangela ukunyanzeliswa kwamalungelo omzali okanye ukukhawulelwa kwexeshana ukuxhaphazwa komntwana nokumnyanzelisa kunoma yintoni na umsebenzi ongekho mthethweni, umzekelo, ukucela okanye ukuba.

Ekubeni kwimeko enye okanye ngaphezulu kwezi zikhankanywe ngasentla, unina unelungelo lokufaka ibango kunye nezigqeba zezomthetho ngokusetyenziswa kweemfuno zokwehliswa koyise womntwana wamalungelo omzali. Ngelo xesha, le ngxelo iya kufuneka ifakwe kunye namaxwebhu apho inkundla iya kukwazi ukubona ukuba uyise akawenzi kakuhle imisebenzi echazwe ngumthetho, okanye ezinye iimeko ezibhekiswe kummangali.

Ukongezelela, kuya kuba yinto engathandekiyo ukuzisa amangqina enkundleni eya kuthi akwazi ukufaka ubungqina kunye nobukho bobuqu kunye nokuba isitatimende sokuthi uyise wengane uyashiya imisebenzi yakhe, kunye nolunye ulwazi oluchazwe kumgwebo.