Iinqwenela zihluke kwiimfuno kunye neemfuno ngezinga labo. Kunzima ukufezekisa, ngokusoloko kungabonakali. Zibaluleke ngakumbi kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo azifumaneki. Okanye ekuqalekeni, kunokubonakala ngathi. Kwaye ukuba kunjalo, awukwazi ukuthi "hayi" kwisifiso sakho, ngaphandle kokufumanisa ithemba lokuzaliseka kwabo ekugqibeleni.
Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ukuze kwenziwe isifiso?
Sithenga iidumba, sidla umlotha
Ungalungiselela ifenitshala kwindlu yakho nakwezinye izinto zangaphakathi ngokucokisekileyo ngokubhekiselele kuFeng Shui. Sidinga ukuxhoma izibuko ezingaphezulu, ukuya etaweni yentloko ngokubhekiselele entshona, kakuhle, okanye empuma. Ungakulibala ukuthenga izitembu ezininzi ezahlukeneyo ngokusemandleni: inhlanhla, ngemali, ngothando, njl. Yiyeke emithathu emotweni. Akukho moto? - thengisa umfuziselo ngokubonakala kwemoto, kusasa kuza kuvela.
Ngoku ulahle konke oku kuhlambulukileyo. Kuyamangalisa ukuba bangaphi abantu abakholelwa ukuba baye bavala indlu yabo ngezinto ezifanayo kwaye baxhomekeke kuzo zonke iintlobo zeengqungquthela, unokulala ngokuzinzileyo kwi-sofa, kwaye ubutyebi buya kuwela ezinyaweni zakho. Amandla alungileyo kufuneka ahlawuliswe ngezinto, kodwa ngokwakho, ingqondo kunye neengcamango zakho. Zizilungiselele ezilungileyo. Ukucinga kwethu kudlala indima enkulu kwimpumelelo yalo msebenzi. Sebenza entloko yakho kwaye uyeke ukuchitha imali kuzo zonke iintlobo ezingenangqondo.
Kukho, kunjalo, ukhetho lokulinda unyaka wonke, kwaye ngoDisemba 31, phakathi nobusuku obubodwa, bhala isifiso kwiphepha, ulibeke emlilweni, uthele umlotha kwiglasi ye-champagne uphuze. Kodwa khumbula, kufuneka wenze konke kwiwashi ye-chiming. Ngaphandle koko, yonke into iya kuza kuwe ngesitya sobhedu. Yiba nje ngenyameko, intombazana enye yayinokukhawuleza kangangokuthi yayinganikanga ipepsi kunye nomnqweno wokutshisa ekugqibeleni, yiphonsa kwiglasi kwaye yanyusa.
Thina sibadala, kodwa sikholelwa kwizinto ezingenangqondo, ezenziwe "zihlekise ngenxa ye". Ukuba ungenzi nto, akukho masiko omlingo aya kunceda. Hayi, kodwa oku kunjalo.
Thatha iNyathelo
Kwimibuzo yento oyenzayo ukuze uzalisekise iminqweno, unokuphendula oku kulandelayo: ukukrazula kwinqanaba lesihlanu ukusuka kwesofa, uthathe isikhundla esicacileyo kwaye uqale ukutshintsha ukuhamba kunye neenyawo zakho. Kodwa ngokungqongqo, kubalulekile ukwenza. Ukufuna kwabo ngokwabo akunakwenzeka. Nangona ulindele into ethile, ixesha liphela, kwaye le yona mthombo uncedo kakhulu. Yinyamekele kwaye ungayichitha. Qala ngokuguqulela iminqweno yakho kwiinjongo. Beka iinjongo kwaye wenze. Kungcono ukwenza isicwangciso nokupenda yonke into ngokuchanekileyo, obonisa ixesha elimalunga nelokujoliswe kuyo.
Ukuba ufuna ukutshata, ke uyeka ukugcina indlela yokuphila ehlaziyekileyo kwaye uzibeke umyalelo. Hayi nje iinwele, kodwa neengcamango. Fumana intsimbi yakho ukuphepha ukuba "njengabantu bonke". Yiba ngumntu onomdla. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ube nomdla kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo.
Ngaba ufuna imali eninzi? Khangela amatsha amathuba. Ibhizinisi lendabuko lingasebenzi, lithembekile kwaye lingaqiniseki. Thatha, umzekelo, i-MLM-ishishini. Ukuthengiswa kwenethiwekhi kuthandwa kakhulu kummandla wezoshishino. Into ephambili kukuba ukhethe inkampani elungileyo kwaye uhambe ngapha nangapha
Ukuba ufuna ukuhamba, hamba ukuhamba. Cwangcisa umzila, qokelela zonke izinto eziyimfuneko, ukuba kunokwenzeka, zifumene iqabane. Ukudibanisa kunye nokukhuselekileyo. Kuyingozi, kunjalo, kodwa emva koko, iminqweno kufuneka ifaneleke. Eli thuba lifanelekile ngobuntu obukhulu kunye nesibindi.
Oko ucinga ukuba kuthinta impumelelo yoshishino lakho. Imvakalelo emihle, ukuzithemba kunye namandla akhe, ukuphuculwa kwehlabathi langaphakathi kunye nokuzikhusela rhoqo kukuqinisekisa ukuba yonke into iya kuvela.