Inqanaba lovelwano lithetha ukuveliswa kweemilinganiselo zokuziphatha zomntu, okuyimfuneko yokuzimelela komntu ngamnye. Uvelwano oluphezulu lunceda ukukhula komntu siqu, kwaye luba luphawu oluphambili. Imfesane yobuntu iyimfuneko ukuze umntu abe nokudibanisa kunye nehlabathi labanye abantu kwaye abe noluntu.
Ukuxilongwa kwinqanaba lokubonisa uvelwano kuhlolwe ngokusebenzisa i-questionnaire ekhethekileyo ka-N. Epstein no-A. Mehrabien. I-questionnaire yokuxilongwa kwengqondo iqulethe iingxelo ezingama-36.
Ukufingqa uvavanyo
- Unamaqondo angama- 82 ukuya kwangu-90 . Inombolo enjalo ibonisa izinga eliphezulu kakhulu lovelwano. Uhlala usabela kwisimo sangaphakathi somnxibelelwano, uyakwazi ukuvalela kwaye uhlale ukhumbula iimvakalelo zakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uhlangabezana nobunzima obuthile ngenxa yokuba abantu abasondelene nawe banokukusebenzisa njenge "galelo", bephonsa phezu kwakho iingxaki kunye neemvakalelo ezimbi. Unokuba nethemba abantu baluphi na ubudala kunye nezentlalo. Ukucinga kwakho ngokugqithiseleyo kunokubangela iingxaki ezingenasidingo, udla ngokufuna inkxaso yokuziphatha kubantu abasondeleyo. Qaphela kwaye unakekele uxolo lwakho lwengqondo.
- Ukuba amanqaku akho ngamanqaku angama- 63 ukuya kwangu-81 , ngoko unqanaba eliphezulu lovelwano. Uhlala uxhalaba ngabanye, zama ukuxazulula iingxaki zabo, unomusa kakhulu kwaye unomusa kwaye unokuxolela kakhulu. Unomdla kubantu, abantu babo. Ungumntu onomdla kunye nomntu onomusa. Unyanisekileyo, zama rhoqo ukudala ibhalansi kunye nokuvisisana phakathi kwabanye. Isimo esifanelekileyo sokugxekwa ngumgangatho onqabileyo onawo. Ukusebenza kwikomiti kukulethela ngakumbi uvuyo kunokuba usebenze wedwa. Njengomthetho, uthemba intuition kunye nemizwelo, ngaphandle kwesizathu. Ufuna ukuvunyelwa kwezenzo zakho ngabantu abakujikelezile.
- Ukuba ufumana amanqaku angama- 37 ukuya kuma-62 , oku kubonisa izinga eliqhelekileyo lovelwano. Kuvela kubantu abaninzi. Awunamdla, kodwa awanakucatshulwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo ugweba abantu ngezenzo zabo. Oku kukukho isibonakaliso esikhulu kunokuba ubonakaliswe ngumntu.
- Amanqaku akho ukusuka ku-12 ukuya ku-36 ? Oku kuthetha ukuba unesiseko esiphantsi sovelwano. Akulungele ukuba udibanise nabanye, ungakhululeki kwinkampani engaqhelekanga okanye enkulu. Ungavumi ukuba ungaboni ngokugqithiseleyo ukubonakalisa ulwalamano kwabanye, kubonakala kuwe ungenangqiqo.
- Ukuba iziphumo zokuvavanya zibonisa ngaphantsi kwama-11 amanqaku - inqanaba lakho lovelwano liphantsi kakhulu. Uhlala kude nabalingane kunye nezihlobo. Akulula ukuba uqale incoko yakho, ingakumbi ixubusha iingxoxo nabantwana okanye abantu abadala.