Ukuhamba kunye nabantwana kwakungeke kube nzima, ukuba kungekhona ixesha elichithwa endleleni. Kuzo zonke iindlela zokuthutha, ibhasi yinto efanelekileyo yokuhamba kunye nezingane ngenxa yendawo esinqinciweyo, imfuno ihlala ihlala kwindawo ehleliyo, ukuyeka okungaqheleki njalo njalo. Kodwa kukho iindlela ezinjalo xa ungeke ukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwayo. Ukuba uhambo aluphepheki, kufuneka ululungiselele kwangaphambili kwaye ufunde imigaqo ephambili kunye neengcebiso zokuthutha abantwana ebhasi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, uhambo lwabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu ebhasini lukhululekile ngaphandle kokubonelela indawo eyahlukileyo - oko kukuthi, lonke ixesha kufuneka ugcine iimvumba ezandleni zakho. Ngoko ke, ukuba ixesha lohambo lidlula iiyure ezingama-3-4, akuyi kuba lula kakhulu kubo bobabini, ngoko kuyacaca ukuthatha umntwana ithikithi. Yinyame ngefestile, ngoko iya kukwazi ukugcina indawo eguqukayo ngaphandle kwewindow. Ngenawe ekufikeleleni, kufuneka ube nemibhobho enomileyo kunye emanzi, i-antiseptic, ukutya nokusela, ii-toys. Ukuba umntwana ulungele ukugula kwesibongo, umele umnike izilwanyana ezinconywe ngumntwana wezingane ngaphambili. Unokubamba iqela le-ginger kunye nalo - inqama yalo izokukunceda ukujamelana nesicefe.
Ukuze ugweme ukuhlazeka, kuyimfuneko ukuchazela umntwana kwangaphambili imigaqo yokuziphatha kwabantwana kwibhasi, esekelwe kwimigaqo yokhuseleko kunye nentlonelo kwabanye. Ngoko, musa ukujikeleza kwikhabhi xa uqhuba, yenza umsindo, umemeza, ulahla, udlale umculo kunye nemidlalo yokuzonwabisa.
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuqagela ixesha lohambo ukuze liwele ngokuhlwa okanye ebusuku, ngokokuba umntwana uya kulala ngexesha elifanayo uya kwanda kakhulu, kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, uya kwenza uhambo lubelula.
Kutheni uthabatha abantwana ebhasi?
Okokuqala, thabatha nawe amathoyizi ozithandayo, kungekhona onke, ewe, kodwa eyona nto imfuneko. Musa ukuthatha iincwadi - ukusuka ekufundeni ngelixa uhamba kwaye umntwana usenokufumana amanqatha. Ewe, ukuba unethuba lokuthatha ikhomputha yekhompyutheni okanye umdlali weDVD nge-headphones endleleni yakho - umntwana unokuba
Injongo enkulu kunokuthatha abantwana kwibhasi kukulungiselela isangxo ngemimangalo. Ukuqokelela kuyo iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo, ezingafunyanwa yinkomo phambi kwamehlo - amathoyizi amancinci, ubuhlalu, amaqhosha, ii-seashell kunye nokunye kwindlela yokucinga. Ukuhamba "ubutyebi" kunye nokudlala nabo kuya kuba nomdla kwaye kuya kuthatha ixesha elide.
Ukongezelela, unokucinga ngemidlalo elula ebhasi kunye nabantwana - umzekelo, ukubala iziteshi zegesi ukusuka kwindawo enye ukuya kwelinye, ukujonga iimoto zombala othile. Kubantwana abancinci bafanelekile kwi-"Ladushki" kunye neminwe yeminwe.