Umntwana uya kuqala nini ukuthetha?
Akunakwenzeka ukucacisa ukuba yeyiphi iminyaka umntwana kufuneka abize igama lokuqala. Iingcali zengqondo ziye zenza uphando oluninzi ngale ngongoma. Emva kwexesha, bafika kwisigqibo sokuba kwiminyaka yobudala ukuya kwimithathu emithathu, abantwana abahlukeneyo bangakwazi ukuvakalisa amagama ama-2 ukuya kuma-100, kwaye kwimeko nganye kuya kuba yinto evamile. Ayikho inombolo eqinisekisiwe yamagama kwiqela elithile leminyaka.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana baqala ukubiza umama wabo wokuqala, umfazi, unike, ngelo, lya, omnye unyaka. Ekuqaleni la magama alula kunye nokuxelisa, kodwa kungekudala baqaphele kwaye banamathele kumntu othile, into okanye isenzo. Ngaloo ndlela, emva kwexesha, umntwana uqala ukubiza amagama, awabhekiselele kwinto ethile.
Kodwa ukuba umntwana akathethi kwiminyaka emibini okanye emithathu, oomama nootata baqala ukuxhalabisa, kuba ubuninzi bezingane sele benesigama esifanelekileyo. Abazali abanjalo baya kuncedwa ngumbononongo "Indlela yokunceda umntwana athethe ngeengcebiso". Masifunde oku ngakumbi malunga nalokhu.
Unokukunceda njani ukuthetha nomntwana kwiminyaka emi-2-3?
Ukuba ukuphuhliswa kwentetho kubinqatshelwe, kuya kufuneka wenze imizamo yokufundisa umntwana. Kukho amanani amanqaku athile okuqwalasela:
- Njengawe nayiphi na inkqubo yokufunda, ukuphuhlisa intetho kufuneka kwenzeke kwindawo efanelekileyo. Ukuba unyoko unomsindo, yonke ixesha enganelisekanga, ngoko umntwana uya kuhlulwa.
- Ukulalisa abantwana, ukuhlanekezela ngamagama ngamabomi kwansuku zonke akuzuzi umntwana. Uya kubaxelisa abadala, ngaloo ndlela kuluxakekise inkqubo. Intetho yomntu omdala kufuneka iphucule kwaye icace.
- Amaklasi kufuneka abanjwe rhoqo, imihla ngemihla, kunye namaxesha amaninzi ngosuku. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uxoxe nomntwana wakho ngaso sonke ixesha. Ukusuka kokungaphezulu kweenkcukacha kunye nokuvuselelwa kwezwi rhoqo, akayi kuluhluza kwisiseko kwaye uya kuqonda intetho njengengxolo yengemuva, kwaye akukho. Kodwa ukuba uhlale uthula, ukungahoywa imfuno yengqondo yomntwana yokunxibelelana, akunakwenzeka.
- Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba abantwana abakhuliswayo kwindlu yengane banomdla wokuphuhlisa intetho inxalenye enkulu kuba abafumani ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza ngamazwi kunye nabadala abenza umsebenzi wabo wokunyamekela ngokukhawuleza xa besondele.
- Kwiintsana, ukususela ekuzalweni, kubalulekile ukuba rhoqo ukufunda iifriythi, imilolozelo elula, imilolotelo yokunyumba. Xa uneminyaka yobudala, inani leencwadi kufuneka likhule kancane. Ukufumana isigama esikhulu esikhulu (ezo ntsingiselo zamagama awaziyo umntwana, kodwa asengasithi), inkunzi inethuba elihle lokuthetha kanye kunye nezivakalisi.
- Okulungileyo kakhulu ekufundeni inkulumo kuphuhlisa izakhono ezincinci kunye ezinkulu . Kule ndawo, iiklasi zokudanisa, ukuzivocavoca umzimba okulula, ukuhamba ngokusebenzayo emoyeni omtsha kuphelile. Kwakhona, iiklasi zokudweba eziqhelekileyo (kusetyenziswa amacandelo omnwe), imodeli, ukukhutshwa kuya kufuneka. Yonke into ehambelana nokuphuhliswa kobuchule kwiminwe, inegalelo ekusebenzeni komsebenzi kumasebe eengqondo enoxanduva lokuthetha.
Kuphela xa umntwana evisisana naye kunye nendalo yakhe, uya kukhula ngokulinganayo kuyo yonke indawo. Kodwa xa kwenzeka umntwana, nangona zonke iingxaki zabantu abadala, enenkani enomlomo okanye ezinika izandi ezingaqhelekanga, umama kufuneka alungise ingxaki enjalo kwi-neurologist yokufumana uncedo olufanelekileyo.