Umzobo oqinileyo

Mhlawumbi, wonke umntu, kungekudala okanye kamva, uyaqonda ukuba wayenokuba ngcono. Xa kunzima kuthi kuthi ngokwethu, kuthetha ukuba sithetha ngomntu onzima. Ngokomgaqo, akukho ziqalo ezilula, kuba ngamnye wethu uhlukile, oko kuthetha ukuba kunzima ukuqonda enye "kwi-bell tower" yethu. Kodwa sisaphila ngethuba xa kunzima ukuziqonda.

Ukuba ezinye iimpawu zakho ziphazamisa abantu, yenza iziqhelana ezintsha, zisebenze, zifunde, ekupheleni, ziphile ngokugcwele, uzibiza ngokuba ngumntu onomtsalane obunzima. Kufana nesithintelo ebomini obuqhelekileyo.

Xa uzivuza ngeli gama, unokhetho olubini:

Ekubeni ikhetho lokuqala lilula ukuqonda kwaye sininzi, siya kuthetha ngomhlathi wesibini.

Indlela yokujongana nomntu onzima?

Ngaba kuyimfuneko ukugxininisa ukuba intombazana enomlingani odibeneyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yinto enhle neyilumko, ingaba neengxaki ezininzi ebomini bakhe.

Sincoma ukuqala ngokuqaphela. Zivume kuwe ukuba kukho ezinye iimpawu (uluhlu lwazo) eziyingozi bakho ubomi kunye nabo bajikelezayo. Musa ukulwa nawe, kodwa qaphela ukuba ungubani.

Emva koko kufuneka uqale idayari. Kuyo uya kubhala zonke ezo mpawu eziphazamisayo ozibonayo emini. Ngoko uya kuba ngqalelo ngakumbi kwaye ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uya kuba nako ukukhusela ukugqashuka kwesi siganeko, uvakalelwa kukuba "ngoku kuya kuqala." Yiba nenkxaso yabathandekayo. Buza ukuba bangakuhlambalaza, bhala ingqalelo yakho kwi-splithes ye-character character, ngexesha okwenzekayo.

Zizenzele kakuhle. Zama ukunxibelelana nabantu abanomdla abangenalo uphawu oluyinkimbinkimbi. Emva kwakho konke, ukuziphatha kwethu kuxhomekeke kwaye unokuthetha, ufunde ukuziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo.