Akukho mfihlo yokuba abantwana ngezinye iinkhathi badinga uncedo lwengqondo. Bona, njengabantu abadala, bajamelana neengxaki zengqondo, banengxaki yokuxinezeleka, banesantya. Kodwa ugqirha kunye nabantwana kunzima ukusebenzisana. Emva koko, bafuna indlela ekhethekileyo.
Ulwaphulo lwezemidlalo luba luqhele ngakumbi ekusebenzisaneni nabantu abadala. Umdlalo unceda abantwana ukuba baphonse yonke inkohlakalo "edlayo" ngaphakathi, kubonisa ukwesaba, umona kubazalwana abancinci okanye oodade, umva wokungakhuseki okanye ukungaqiniseki. Ukubukela umdlalo, umntu omdala unokufumanisa ukuba bunzima bunjani, izikhalazo zomlomo, ezingabonakali ngomlomo, amava omntwana.
Izindlela zonyango lomdlalo
Kwiziko langoku zengqondo, iingcali zisebenzisa iindlela zokudlala unyango emsebenzini wabo nabantwana. Ungatsho ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba isiqubulo sale ndlela "Musa ukulawula, kodwa qonda." Injongo yalo ayiyikuguqula umntwana, kodwa ukuzithi "Mina".
Iindidi zonyango lomdlalo
Okwangoku, unyango lwemibala luhlulwa njenge:
- Ulwaphulo oluhlalutyo lwe-Ego (i-therapists, ngexesha lo mdlalo, unikela umntwana ukutolika okuhlukahlukeneyo ukuze amncede aqonde kwaye amkele ukungqubuzana ngokomzwelo oye waphoxiswa ngaphandle okanye aphikisiwe).
- Ulwaphulo, olujolise kwingcamango yokufunda ezentlalo (isazi senzululwazi sigxile ekufundiseni umntwana ukuba adlale nabanye, kungekhona ekuthintekeni komxholo weemidlalo zezingane).
- Ulwaphulo lwe-game non-directive (kwiimeko ezininzi, umgqirha awunamsebenzi kwaye umntwana uxhasa izigwebo ezingenangqondo, ezibanceda baveze iingxabano zabo ngokufumana isisombululo sabo.) Oku kuchazwe ngokucacileyo kwincwadi ethi GL Landrett ethi "I-thrapi ye-game: ubugcisa bobuhlobo".
Umdlalo wonyango - umzimba
Ukuqhuba unyango lomdlalo ekhaya, ungasebenzisa le midlalo:
- "Ukuqaphela". Hlela abantwana ukuba baqhelane nabo. Ziphule zibe zibini, zibancede ukuba zibize kwaye zivumele ukuba zibuze igama lommelwane wazo.
- "Lokuzalwa". Ndiyabulela kulo mdlalo, ngamnye umntwana uya kuziva ukuba igosa lokuqwalasela. Nika ngokunye
lokuzalwa. Ndincede ukuba ndivulele kwaye ndifuna. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba abantwana abaneentlanzi badinga imidlalo eyanceda ukukhupha iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo, kunye nemidlalo efundisa ngokuchanekileyo iimvakalelo zabo neemvakalelo zabo. - "Ukudlala." Nika enye yeebini ibhola elimnandi, uze uncede umntwana wesibini ukuba amcele ngokufanelekileyo, ngexesha elifanayo, ukuba kunyanzelekile, kufuneka anikeze utshintsho.
Musa ukulibala ukuba abantwana bayabodwa kwaye bafuna indlela ekhethekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, ukuziphatha komntu omdala kufakwe ebuntwaneni.