Ubuhlobo bokuhlola umbala

Uvavanyo lombala lobudlelwane be-Etkind luphawu olutshanje, kuba lubonakala kuphela ekupheleni kwekhulu lokugqibela. Inkqubo yenzelwe ukubuyisela ubudlelwane obungacatshulwa kakuhle nezigulane zengqondo. Nangona kunjalo, uvavanyo lombala lolwalamano A. U-Etkind uye wahamba ngokufudukela kwinqanaba lezenzo zekliniki ukuba abe ngumsebenzi wokucebisa nabantu abadala kunye nabantwana. Le ndlela iquka ukuthelekisa imibala kunye nabalinganiswa bobomi boqobo, kunye nomlinganiselo wemibala yezinto ezikhethiweyo, ezifana neyadalwa ngokuhlolwa kombala kobudlelwane bukaLusher.

Uvavanyo lwemibala yobudlelwano be-intanethi ne-Etkind: izigaba

Ukuze usebenzise indlela, kufuneka uhambe kuzo zonke izigaba ezinhlanu ngokulandelelana. Ngoko, ubuchule bovavanyo lombala lolwalamano:

1. Ingxoxo kunye nengcali yengqondo. Kule ndlela, ukubunjwa kwentsapho kubonisiwe, abantu abaqeshwe ngokubhaliweyo banamaphepha, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha isangqa sidluliselwa kwizizalwane zesekondari, ukuba zibalulekile kumntu, zisondele kuye. Ukongezelela kumalungu entsapho, abahlobo, izitha, ezifanelekileyo, kunye nomntu "umntu" obonakalisiweyo: "Uhlala kwixesha elizayo", "Usemsebenzini", "Usebenza", "Uhlala ekhaya", "Uhlala eholide". Abalinganiswa mababe ngu-12-18.
2. Imibutho yombala. Umthengi unikezelwa ngamakhadi ahlukeneyo (njengaseLusher). Isazi sengqondo sichaza amagama abantu ukusuka kwiluhlu oluqulunqwe ngaphambili, kwaye umxholo ngamnye kumntu ubiza umbala ofanelekileyo. Ukuba ngababini ababini babizwa ngokuthi imibala emi-2-3, isazi sezengqondo sibabhalise bonke, kodwa omnye wabo makabekwa "njengelungileyo".
3. Ukuhamba kwisigaba sesithathu semvavanyo yombala yobudlelwane be-Etkind, kufuneka ubeke amakhadi anemibala ekuhlaleni kokukhetha. Njalo xa umntu ekhetha umbala omnandi kakhulu kuye, ngoko kubasele, njl. Ingcali yeengqondo ibhala phantsi.
4. Ingcali yeengqondo yenza itafile yokugqibela, apho igalela yonke idatha.
5. Kukho ukuchazwa kovavanyo lombala lolwalamano. Kukho iindlela ezimbini: okanye uboleka eLusher intsingiselo yemibala, okanye usebenzisa indawo yombala ngokubhekiselele kubalinganiswa. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ubuchule bokuhlolwa kombala wobudlelwane (TEC) bufuna ukuba khona komthengi, ekubeni ukuphendula komntu kwiingcamango kubalulekile.

Naliphi na isazi senzululwazi singakwazi ukuphumeza le ndlela, kodwa akunakwenzeka rhoqo ukuvavanya ngokuzimela.

Ubuhlobo boVavanyo boMbala kwi-Intanethi: Ukutolika

Uhlalutyo luyinkqubo emininzi kwaye luyinkimbinkimbi, impendulo yabathengi kunye nemibandela emincinci into echazwe ngayo ithatyathwa.

1. Ulwalamano olupheleleyo lobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Ukuba umntu usebenzisa imibala engama-7-8 yemibutho - ihlabathi lakhe lihluke kwaye ligcwele. Ukuba 5-6 - umfanekiso wakhe wehlabathi ulula. Ukuba kuphela 4 okanye ngaphantsi - umntu uncinci kakhulu kwimibono yakhe kwaye ahlalutye umfanekiso uya kuba nzima kakhulu.
2. Ukuzihlola ngokubanzi. Kubalulekile ukucacisa indawo kwizinga, apho esi sihloko sibeka khona. Ngokuqhelekileyo kufuneka ibe ngaphezu kwephakathi kwesikali, kodwa kungeyona indawo ephezulu (oku kukuzithemba). Okwesine ngasentla nangaphantsi kwendawo-iingxaki ngokuzithemba (ezingaphantsi).
3. Inalogalog of the scale of lies. Ukuba umhlobo kwinqanaba lokukhetha liphantsi kweentshaba - mhlawumbi, iziphumo ziphosakeleyo, zilungelelanisa.
4. Ulwalamano nabazali. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali kufuneka babe nomgca omnye kwaye baphezulu kunomqondiso womthengi ngokwakhe. Ukuba ngaba abazali baphantsi - kubonisa iingxaki nabo.
5. Efanelekileyo. Kubalulekile, apho kukho kwizinga lokukhetha kwaye ngubani ophezulu kumgca. Ezi zibalulekileyo abantu ebomini komthengi. Ukuba i-Ideal isesikhaleni esingezantsi komxhasi, ngoko akayi kuphinda ufezekise.
6. Bahlobo. Zifanele zibe kumgca ofanayo kunye nomthengi okanye ngokwahlukileyo komgca omnye.
7. Uchonga. Bonke abantu abanombala ofanayo kumlinganiselo njengoko umthengi ngokwakhe, emehlweni omthengi ngandlela-thile ulingana naye.

Ukongeza, i-psychologist inika ingqwalasela ukuba ngubani ojikelezwe ngaphezulu - amadoda okanye amabhinqa, kwaye uchaze ukuba kutheni le nto ingaba njalo.