Maxa wambi amaxesha amabhinqa abhekana kunye kunye nesimo esinjalo njengento yokuthanda abantu babo, ngenxa yokuba umona unamandla kakhulu kwaye xa phakathi kwabafazi kukho ubudlelwane obuhle , ubudlelwane obufudumeleyo, buya kuphulwa ngu-razluchnitsa, usebenzisa umlingo. Inendima enkulu kumnqweno wokuthatha umlingane wakho unokuphila kakuhle. Ngaba inkosikazi ingayikhathaza indoda, ukuba wena ngokwakho uyamthabatha, ewe, ewe! Ukuba umyeni uphumelele, ubomi bakho buzinzile, buzinzile kwaye buzinzile, ubudlelwane buhle kwaye abantu abaninzi bayazi malunga nalo, mhlawumbi ukuba umona ulahlekelwe ngumntu ongekho umntu onokuba yinto enhle eyoyiphuphayo ebomini. Ukuze uphephe into enjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuxelela indlela oqhuba ngayo kakuhle. Iindaba ezilungileyo zisoloko zibangelwa umona kuphela, ngoko ke ukuba uthetha kakhulu malunga nendlela yonke into enhle ngayo, ungamangalisi ukuba indoda yakhe yatshitshiswa waza washiya intsapho. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zesipelo, kwaye aziyi kudlula ngaphandle kokulandelwa, kwaye kungekudala okanye kamva, i-breaker iya kubuya. Kodwa yintoni eseleyo yowesifazane oshiywe yodwa?
Kuthekani ukuba inkosikazi yatshintsha umyeni wayo inyanga?
Unokwenza umtsalane, njengoko bethetha: "Yenza umda wokukhawuleza," uye kumfazi onamandla onolwazi onokukunceda ukuyombulula le ngxaki. Iingcaphephe kule ndawo zihlala ziyazi ukuba zenzeni. Ekuqaleni, i-lapel yenziwe kwindlovukazi, ngoko upelo lwenziwa ngqo kumfazi wakhe. Konke oku kuthatha ixesha elide, kodwa kusinikeza isiphumo. Nangona kunjalo, cinga ngenyameko malunga nokuba kulungile ukuthatha ingozi kwaye, njengoko ithetha, yenza isono entliziyweni.
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba i-spell eqinileyo ithathwa njengesithandwa senyanga. Ukuba awukholelwa kwii-lapel, uhlamba kunye neminye imilingo, ngoko kukulungele ukuya ecaweni ngenkonzo, faka ikhandlela kwimpilo yabantu bonke kwaye uthandaze. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukucinga okungaphantsi malunga nokupela nokucwangcisa ingqondo yakho engacatshulwayo kuphela kumatshini ococekileyo kwaye ontle.