Ukuphazamiseka kokufa akuyona into engadluliyo, ngelishwa, isiqalekiso esithunyelwa ngenxa yokuhlambalaza, ukudideka, ukubuyisela. Ukufumana ulwazi, akukho nto inye ebhokisini yobomi obuya kulungisa umonakalo wokufa. Umntu, nokuba yeyiphi na into, ufanele uhlwaywe ngenxa yezenzo zakhe ngokunyanzeliswa kwexesha lakhe, kodwa akafani noko ngokwakhe-umntu. Kwangexesha elide akukho bantu abangenasono emhlabeni, kwaye wonke umntu unomnqamlezo wakhe. Ukwenza oko akumele kwenzeke okanye akufanele kwenzeke komnye umntu ishishini lesono kunye nezohlwayo ngenxa yomonakalo wokufa kunzima kakhulu, ihlala ixesha elide kunye nezizukulwana. Mhlawumbi, le yimiqondiso kuphela emva kokuba ubomi bakho buhlale kubantwana. Baya kuba noxanduva lwesenzo sakho sisisiphukuphuko-isono esinzulu.
Uyazi njani ukuba kukho umonakalo kuwe?
Qaphela ukuba iimpawu zokubhubhisa ekufeni zingenzeka ngezizathu zempilo.
Okokuqala, umnqweno wokuphila nokuzonwabisa ubomi uphela. Iphupha elinzima, ukungavumi ukutya, ubunzima emilenzeni, ukuxakeka, ukuxakeka, kunye nokuxinzelela okukhulu.
Kakade, ingaba iimpawu zentsholongwane ejwayelekile, ukwehla kwe-hemoglobin okanye isifo senhliziyo, esiya kunceda ukuphilisa amayeza. Kodwa ukuba ama- nightmares kunye nemibono yomeleza, kwaye emva kokukhathazeka okunye, ngokwempilo, enye ilandele ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukucinga: ngaba unganenkathazo ekufunayo wena nentsapho yakho?
Ungasusa njani umonakalo wokufa?
Bashiya ukupela ukufa kweentlanga okanye abathakathi beedolophini. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu othabatha le shishini - kuyingozi kwimpilo. Umonakalo omkhulu ekufeni, iziphumo ezichaphazela intsapho yonke, isuswa ngokucela.
Umntu owenza oku uchongwa, ngokuqhelekileyo ngemini. Yena, enye indlela okanye enye, ibonakala ngaphambi kokuba amehlo akhe athathe, anike, abuze, njl. Ngokweendlela zakhe zokuziphatha, kucacile ukuba utshintsho aluqhubeki kakuhle kumntu.
Ukuhlwayelwa, nakweyiphi na imeko, kuya kufumana umnqweno wokubangela ingozi, kuba umonakalo wokufa komntu akanalo ilungelo lokuphila kwimithetho yabantu. Ukuphulwa komthetho, nakweyiphi na into, kufaka isijeziso. Kule meko, akuyi kukwazi ukumshiya kwaye ummiselo weemingcele kuye awubhalisiwe.